od or bad it just listens to what you ask of it and it obeys, (and this is the stinger…) without question!.

For example: If we take the phrase above, I know he’s the one for me I can feel it, If you had left it at that and that is what you were truly feeling, through every fibre of your being, then it would be honoured by this law, no questions asked. BUT then you had to go and confuse it, put a spanner in the works by saying, … oh but he wouldn’t want a relationship with me!

Tell me, out of those two distinct feelings, one of assurity and the other, a complete lack of self esteem, which do you think t

Many times in our life we join that special someone (or so we think) and wonder could this be my relationship for life? Sadly, a lot of those relationships are not what we are looking for in life.

Finding that perfect someone can be a daunting task, and sometimes we may feel that it will never happen, right? If you feel like this; that all the good ones are taken, that a relationship for life is avoiding you and not seeking you, then perhaps you need to change your perception on how you are going about this.

HOW? I hear you ask. Well, let me tell you a plain and simple truth, one that has been around for a very long time, for so many centuries they lost count as to where it came from, even well before the Biblical days. This truth man has sought all his days on the earth and yet it stares at him in the face daily, lives in him and through him and is part of him, constantly, till the day he dies.

What is it?

I’ll put it very simply, because it can get long winded and scientific.

Here it is:

“What you look for, that is what you will find”

I know, I can hear you saying, …what on earth has this got to do with finding my relationship for life ? A LOT! Every time we start thinking about that special someone we would love to be with, share that special, life-long relationship with, we tend to put in the air-of-doubt syndrome, Yes, that’s right we put the mockers on the very thing we want to happen. Let me show you what I mean. It would go something like this:

I know he’s the one for me I can feel it,…oh but he wouldn’t want a relationship with me! I could spend my whole life in a relationship with this woman,… who am I kidding, she wouldn’t want me! How long will this relationship last ? I know I love our relationship … but do they? Any of these sound familiar?

I’m sure you have heard of the Law of Attraction. If you haven’t then I suggest you listen to what I have to say. If you do know what I mean then let’s take a look at how it affects your relationships.

The Law of Attraction comes into play every millisecond of your life, in fact it never stops working in your favour, that’s right YOUR favour, giving you everything your heart desires. Of course the one BIG mistake we all make with this law is this; we forget that this law does not decipher what we conceive as good or bad it just listens to what you ask of it and it obeys, (and this is the stinger…) without question!.

For example: If we take the phrase above, I know he’s the one for me I can feel it, If you had left it at that and that is what you were truly feeling, through every fibre of your being, then it would be honoured by this law, no questions asked. BUT then you had to go and confuse it, put a spanner in the works by saying, … oh but he wouldn’t want a relationship with me!

Tell me, out of those two distinct feelings, one of assurity and the other, a complete lack of self esteem, which do you think th

e truth, one that has been around for a very long time, for so many centuries they lost count as to where it came from, even well before the Biblical days. This truth man has sought all his days on the earth and yet it stares at him in the face daily, lives in him and through him and is part of him, constantly, till the day he dies.

What is it?

I’ll put it very simply, because it can get long winded and scientific.

Here it is:

“What you look for, that is what you will find”

I know, I can hear you saying, …what on earth has this got to do with finding my relationship for life ? A LOT! Every time we start thinking about that special someone we would love to be with, share that special, life-long relationship with, we tend to put in the air-of-doubt syndrome, Yes, that’s right we put the mockers on the very thing we want to happen. Let me show you what I mean. It would go something like this:

I know he’s the one for me I can feel it,…oh but he wouldn’t want a relationship with me! I could spend my whole life in a relationship with this woman,… who am I kidding, she wouldn’t want me! How long will this relationship last ? I know I love our relationship … but do they? Any of these sound familiar?

I’m sure you have heard of the Law of Attraction. If you haven’t then I suggest you listen to what I have to say. If you do know what I mean then let’s take a look at how it affects your relationships.

The Law of Attraction comes into play every millisecond of your life, in fact it never stops working in your favour, that’s right YOUR favour, giving you everything your heart desires. Of course the one BIG mistake we all make with this law is this; we forget that this law does not decipher what we conceive as good or bad it just listens to what you ask of it and it obeys, (and this is the stinger…) without question!.

For example: If we take the phrase above, I know he’s the one for me I can feel it, If you had left it at that and that is what you were truly feeling, through every fibre of your being, then it would be honoured by this law, no questions asked. BUT then you had to go and confuse it, put a spanner in the works by saying, … oh but he wouldn’t want a relationship with me!

Tell me, out of those two distinct feelings, one of assurity and the other, a complete lack of self esteem, which do you think t

very time we start thinking about that special someone we would love to be with, share that special, life-long relationship with, we tend to put in the air-of-doubt syndrome, Yes, that’s right we put the mockers on the very thing we want to happen. Let me show you what I mean. It would go something like this:

I know he’s the one for me I can feel it,…oh but he wouldn’t want a relationship with me! I could spend my whole life in a relationship with this woman,… who am I kidding, she wouldn’t want me! How long will this relationship last ? I know I love our relationship … but do they? Any of these sound familiar?

I’m sure you have heard of the Law of Attraction. If you haven’t then I suggest you listen to what I have to say. If you do know what I mean then let’s take a look at how it affects your relationships.

The Law of Attraction comes into play every millisecond of your life, in fact it never stops working in your favour, that’s right YOUR favour, giving you everything your heart desires. Of course the one BIG mistake we all make with this law is this; we forget that this law does not decipher what we conceive as good or bad it just listens to what you ask of it and it obeys, (and this is the stinger…) without question!.

For example: If we take the phrase above, I know he’s the one for me I can feel it, If you had left it at that and that is what you were truly feeling, through every fibre of your being, then it would be honoured by this law, no questions asked. BUT then you had to go and confuse it, put a spanner in the works by saying, … oh but he wouldn’t want a relationship with me!

Tell me, out of those two distinct feelings, one of assurity and the other, a complete lack of self esteem, which do you think t

I know I love our relationship … but do they? Any of these sound familiar?

I’m sure you have heard of the Law of Attraction. If you haven’t then I suggest you listen to what I have to say. If you do know what I mean then let’s take a look at how it affects your relationships.

The Law of Attraction comes into play every millisecond of your life, in fact it never stops working in your favour, that’s right YOUR favour, giving you everything your heart desires. Of course the one BIG mistake we all make with this law is this; we forget that this law does not decipher what we conceive as good or bad it just listens to what you ask of it and it obeys, (and this is the stinger…) without question!.

For example: If we take the phrase above, I know he’s the one for me I can feel it, If you had left it at that and that is what you were truly feeling, through every fibre of your being, then it would be honoured by this law, no questions asked. BUT then you had to go and confuse it, put a spanner in the works by saying, … oh but he wouldn’t want a relationship with me!

Tell me, out of those two distinct feelings, one of assurity and the other, a complete lack of self esteem, which do you think t

od or bad it just listens to what you ask of it and it obeys, (and this is the stinger…) without question!.

For example: If we take the phrase above, I know he’s the one for me I can feel it, If you had left it at that and that is what you were truly feeling, through every fibre of your being, then it would be honoured by this law, no questions asked. BUT then you had to go and confuse it, put a spanner in the works by saying, … oh but he wouldn’t want a relationship with me!

Tell me, out of those two distinct feelings, one of assurity and the other, a complete lack of self esteem, which do you think the law of attraction would gravitate toward, to try and give you that relationship for life - a fleeting glimpse of a positive feeling or one that resides within you day after day?

Of course the latter one because the emotion, the feeling which is attached to the thought is stronger, you believe this much more than the having the right relationship for life and this is what you will get… no questions asked!

What can we do about this, what methods are there to help us correct such negative emotions? For a start let me just say that you CAN have that relationship for life, you ARE deserving of it, and you are a worthy partner to complete the picture with the right someone. A loving, caring relationship is your birthright if this is what you wish.

If you want a relationship for life, one that you deeply care about, that is what you must constantly think about and do NOT let the air-of-doubt syndrome slip in. You deserve the best, and it is waiting for you always. Only when you put the right thought and attention on it can you have it, and believe me, you do not want a relationship that is otherwise wrong for you. I have been there as I am sure many of you reading this right now have been.

Do not even start thinking things like:

I always get the dud one OR

I seem to always choose the wrong partner OR

Why am I forever in the wrong relationship? …because that is just what you will end up getting more of. Instead, think of what you DO want in this relationship for life and give it all your attention and feeling.

“That’s all very well”, I hear you object, “but it’s not so easy. I can’t just stop those negative, limiting feelings and thoughts rising up.”

Would you like to know HOW to do just that? Would you like to know HOW to successfully begin to place your whole focus on the desired result – a life-long relationship of complete satisfaction? Would you like to hear a true story that illustrates exactly how it works; How the application of a simple principle that is easy to incorporate into life, brought two people into a wonderful relationship that continues to deepen and grow after over 16 years of marriage?