I Advice - Relationships

Job Side Story
We all need job.... Everyone wants it, needs it, but what makes a job a Great Job? Obviously, different people will give different answers. It's impossible to account for individual taste and personality traits and how each might fit into a particular job. What makes a great job opportunity is much easier to gauge. How much do you get paid? What kind of professional development opportunities are available? How much room for innovation does a role offer? What makes it a stable place to stick in?Clearly, one would want to

io-logical expectation that women will continue to sprout off when asked but it defies their emotional and physiological response to a true alpha male of power.

Men who are in touch with their natural character and who get HER body temperature rising are the ones she is interested in for physical relationships.

No wonder women are a complete paradox. They themselves are fighting against a longstanding social tradition and expectation yet they want to be able to experience their sexual freedom as well without being thought of or labeled as a slut.

This means they have to be able to trust a man to 'open up her flower' to him.

And ironically, they will trust a bad boy more than the fidgety nice guy because of the man's congruency and homeosta

Business Philosophy
Having been in business for myself for almost 20 years, I have found myself analysing the way I have progressed and developed both in business, and as a person, and the word that covers this best is philosophy. If your business is not doing well, then it may be worth taking a look at its philosophy.It may be stating the obvious, but how successful you and your business becomes, will rely on your (or the businesses) philosophy. I believe that people are in control of their own future, and can achieve what ever they want

The greatest test a woman will give you is about relational power. As a man you don't have to dominate her, sometimes you just have to remain equal in true power and have the favor of leading the relationship by .01% and you'll be fine.

But you have to maintain that lead in the overall context of the relationship.

Keep in mind when I say true power that this .01% difference is a lot more than you realize and I'm talking about dealing with the MOST independent and desired of women. That means you have to be AT least at that level of power in relation to them.

Do this by simply not giving your power up and leveraging your cognition of relational dynamics. You're not dropping down in character for anyone because you remain the same high quality, high character guy; you just are essentially ALWAYS at least equal to them or greater.

You still have to have the edge but the greatest test is about relational power; are you equal to her or greater in the relationship. Because if you're less and you're giving her the edge of the stimulus she will lose attraction and interest in you.

A woman will keep testing you to see if you still have the juevos to stay in power in relation to her.

She will test a man of obvious power MUCH less than she will challenge a person of dubious power in relation to her.

Now...the respect issue.

Women do NOT want a wimpy, wussy man. Society brainwashes you into thinking that.

Our women are already over-edified enough and they experience every single day.

They cannot trust these men who keep coming up to them with the wrong frame of relationship already set (response-stimulus).

Some say that simply approaching a hot woman is giving up your power; I completely disagree and I'll save that discussion for another time.

Let's talk about respect. Society and our mothers breed us to be nice, caring gentlemen who will make good husbands and fathers.

The problem with that is although it's a nice social expectation, isn't doesn't reach down to a woman's natural and intuitively responsive character.

If it was influenced by people in the first place, you can bet that it's unnatural.

A woman's biology is stronger than her socially and environmentally bred logic.

It would make sense that a nice, respectful man who brings flowers to her door would be romantic and get her interested but it doesn't. Especially not anymore with our current social dynamics.

She doesn't get to know him anymore because the courtship frame of the relationship is carrying with it the weight of her mother and logic. The socio-expectational leverage he has carried into their new relationship not only speaks so loudly that she can't see through to the real him, but it overrules her body's interest or response to him.

Sure, the nice guy can 'respect' a woman but by not being honest in his intentions about what he really wants (courtship when he wants to sleep with her), she won't be able to trust him anyways in the bedroom.

Nice guys are a great socio-logical expectation that women will continue to sprout off when asked but it defies their emotional and physiological response to a true alpha male of power.

Men who are in touch with their natural character and who get HER body temperature rising are the ones she is interested in for physical relationships.

This means they have to be able to trust a man to 'open up her flower' to him.

And ironically, they will trust a bad boy more than the fidgety nice guy because of the man's congruency and homeostas

The Critical Resume Question
People have asked me often how to write a resume, or how to write a good resume, or what sets good resumes apart.I always give the same answer.Great resumes, the only kind you ever want to have if you want an effective job search, answer one critical question for any potential employer who looks at it:WHAT'S IN IT FOR THEM?If your resume doesn't answer that question in a few seconds, it's garbage. It's worse than worthless for you, because it can lock you out of that prospect.Nice paper, or an

high character guy; you just are essentially ALWAYS at least equal to them or greater.