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    My Stock - Right or Wrong
    We all know the expression, “My country, right or wrong”, but have you ever thought about the stocks or mutual fund you own and said to yourself, “My stock - right or wrong” and held on to your position even as you saw your hard-earned money disappearing?This is the Buy N Hold strategy and, in case you haven’t noticed, lost from 40% to 60% and more of investors’ money from 2000 to 2003. Fortunately, for the past year stock markets around the world have gone up and folks have recovered about 25% to 30% from those low numbers. They are still about 60% out-of-pocket.The market is now in an uptrend and who is to say how long it will last. A long time I hope. Never fight the trend. What the smart investor does is learn to spot the trend and go with it either up or down. What do I mean go with it “do
    from in our relationships is the real mirror of where we come from in life. It is the real barometer.

    I used to run outdoor experiential learning programs for corporate groups looking for higher productivity and better self-responsibility. I was always stunned to see people who were in fear and denial in their relationships, jump off the highest rope bridge to prove how fearless they were. This ego we have can masquerade around doing am

    Credit Card Comparisons - Choosing The Best Deal
    With debt at an all time high, many of us will be looking to either transfer our current credit card debt or apply for a new credit card with more benefits or lower interest rate. However, with a plethora of card offers out there, deciding which card, if any, is best for you can seem a little dauntingWhat follows are some useful tips and advice that hopefully will help your decision making a little easier and clearer.Loyalty/bonus cardsAs people's circumstances vary so do the credit card deals on offer. If you intend to clear your bill each month, the interest rate on your card becomes irrelevant as you won't have to pay it. Therefore you should consider going for a card that offers some form of loyalty bonus such as redeemable points, cash back or air miles.Interest-fre
    For just a few moments a day, stop the rush and contemplate the following questions? Is my mindset supporting a loving relationship? How do I really feel? Am I coming from anger or frustration, and therefore so determined to “make it” the way I want it, that I can’t appreciate it the way that it is? Am I looking at my love from the smallness of a victim, waiting for it to come to me, feeling rejected, and therefore always trying to prove my independence? Is being right today more important than being kind today? Has my drive for work overpowered the most important words in my life, I love you? If the answer is yes, please stop for a moment and consider the long term impact of such depreciative behaviour. Remind yourself, that the pain of regret always outweighs the discomfort of humility.

    As a lover, it is wise to know where you are coming from in your relationship. If you don’t know this, you might just be projecting onto people, and won’t know anything about your reality, your truth or love. You might forget that what you think causes what you get. You might forget that there is another layer to life where your thoughts and feelings actually transfer to those around you, even if you wear a mask. You might forget that praying to a God or Goddess is a cruel joke if you cannot give love and respect to those whose lives you touch everyday. True religion begins in the reality of your home, and that reality begins with what is deeply immersed in your heart.

    This awareness also affects your work. It doesn’t matter whether it is your relationships, your friendships, your finances or your work; you come from the same place in all of them. This is a vital awareness. Some people come from kindness, others from authority, mothering, or fathering. Where we come from in our relationships is the real mirror of where we come from in life. It is the real barometer.

    I used to run outdoor experiential learning programs for corporate groups looking for higher productivity and better self-responsibility. I was always stunned to see people who were in fear and denial in their relationships, jump off the highest rope bridge to prove how fearless they were. This ego we have can masquerade around doing ama

    Develop A Home Based Business That Works!
    Internet and home based businesses have virtually exploded since the 1980’s. To have an Internet presence these days for most companies is not just a desire, but a requirement for any company serious about attracting new customers and retaining existing ones. Even home based businesses have benefited from the Internet revolution. Today, payments can be made online and a person may never have to see, or even talk to, a real person. What a change from the old days, when one had to either speak with someone on the phone or live in a particular city to buy a product or make a sale! These days, anyone can have a home business and be successful, if they have the right systems and support in place.Now, even small home businesses can put the power of the Internet to work for them. And you, as a savvy In
    dependence? Is being right today more important than being kind today? Has my drive for work overpowered the most important words in my life, I love you? If the answer is yes, please stop for a moment and consider the long term impact of such depreciative behaviour. Remind yourself, that the pain of regret always outweighs the discomfort of humility.

    As a lover, it is wise to know where you are coming from in your relationship. If you don’t know this, you might just be projecting onto people, and won’t know anything about your reality, your truth or love. You might forget that what you think causes what you get. You might forget that there is another layer to life where your thoughts and feelings actually transfer to those around you, even if you wear a mask. You might forget that praying to a God or Goddess is a cruel joke if you cannot give love and respect to those whose lives you touch everyday. True religion begins in the reality of your home, and that reality begins with what is deeply immersed in your heart.

    This awareness also affects your work. It doesn’t matter whether it is your relationships, your friendships, your finances or your work; you come from the same place in all of them. This is a vital awareness. Some people come from kindness, others from authority, mothering, or fathering. Where we come from in our relationships is the real mirror of where we come from in life. It is the real barometer.

    I used to run outdoor experiential learning programs for corporate groups looking for higher productivity and better self-responsibility. I was always stunned to see people who were in fear and denial in their relationships, jump off the highest rope bridge to prove how fearless they were. This ego we have can masquerade around doing am

    Understanding An Urban Myth ( 55% / 38% / 7% is Wrong)
    The objective for most business presentations to is educate and influence people, while at the same time providing some entertainment to keep them interested. To achieve this, the audience must understand what you are saying. There are three aspects to understanding what someone is saying: Vocal Verbal VisualThe standard percentages that are often quoted in relation to public speaking, are that 7% of the information is conveyed verbally, 38% vocally, and 55% visually. These percentages have become an urban myth, propagated by presentation trainers and voice coaches around the world.These percentages are not only misleading, they are wrong. The origins of these figures are two separate studies, one conducted by Albert Mehrabian and Susan Ferris (1967) which comp
    ’t know this, you might just be projecting onto people, and won’t know anything about your reality, your truth or love. You might forget that what you think causes what you get. You might forget that there is another layer to life where your thoughts and feelings actually transfer to those around you, even if you wear a mask. You might forget that praying to a God or Goddess is a cruel joke if you cannot give love and respect to those whose lives you touch everyday. True religion begins in the reality of your home, and that reality begins with what is deeply immersed in your heart.

    This awareness also affects your work. It doesn’t matter whether it is your relationships, your friendships, your finances or your work; you come from the same place in all of them. This is a vital awareness. Some people come from kindness, others from authority, mothering, or fathering. Where we come from in our relationships is the real mirror of where we come from in life. It is the real barometer.

    I used to run outdoor experiential learning programs for corporate groups looking for higher productivity and better self-responsibility. I was always stunned to see people who were in fear and denial in their relationships, jump off the highest rope bridge to prove how fearless they were. This ego we have can masquerade around doing am

    Making Your Online Marketing Dollars Work Hard For You
    Did you know there is more advertising being done right now than there ever has been in the history of our planet?Have you been caught up in the online marketing frenzy that has been gaining ever increasing momentum over the last 10 years? If so, then I'm sure you understand why.Before the advent of the Internet, regular people didn't really do much marketing. Now you only have to mention the words eBay, Google, Monster.com, Singles.com or any other of the many companies that offer online marketing for the masses, to realize that everyone and their brother is getting in on the act.This transition from - virtually no marketing, to - everybody marketing presents us with its own problems though. Namely, very few people now marketing something or other online know how to do i
    s you touch everyday. True religion begins in the reality of your home, and that reality begins with what is deeply immersed in your heart.

    This awareness also affects your work. It doesn’t matter whether it is your relationships, your friendships, your finances or your work; you come from the same place in all of them. This is a vital awareness. Some people come from kindness, others from authority, mothering, or fathering. Where we come from in our relationships is the real mirror of where we come from in life. It is the real barometer.

    I used to run outdoor experiential learning programs for corporate groups looking for higher productivity and better self-responsibility. I was always stunned to see people who were in fear and denial in their relationships, jump off the highest rope bridge to prove how fearless they were. This ego we have can masquerade around doing am

    Using Qualifiers in Dialogue
    Qualifiers such as very, many, rather, hardly, etc. should be avoided in serious writing that is narrative, expository, descriptive, or argumentative, in other words formal writing, but it is acceptable in informal writing such as humor, magazine articles, and essays for public consumption. Again, this means that the writer should use caution and prudence that requires thought and attention to the purpose of the writing.That said, the use of these words in dialogue is essential as normal conversation is rife with qualifiers. Most people use them indiscriminately. The qualifier very is probably the one most overused. If such qualifiers are not used in dialogue it sounds unnatural and stiff, but the writer must not overdo their use, as it will denigrate the composition, especially if it is prose.
    from in our relationships is the real mirror of where we come from in life. It is the real barometer.

    I used to run outdoor experiential learning programs for corporate groups looking for higher productivity and better self-responsibility. I was always stunned to see people who were in fear and denial in their relationships, jump off the highest rope bridge to prove how fearless they were. This ego we have can masquerade around doing amazing tricks, but that is all they are, tricks, unsustainable moments where we “fake it”. The beauty of a relationship is that you can’t fake it for long. Your partner eventually gets to see the real you, and where you are coming from. You just can’t fake it at home for long.

    Alone, we can be an angel. We don’t feel embarrassed because nobody saw us eat the whole block of chocolate, or watch that R rated movie. Being single is the same as being busy, we hardly have time to stop and experience the affect of our own thinking and feeling. We don’t even have to know ourselves. We just blame the world and get on with it.

    It’s like being two people. When we want something from someone we can be really nice, and when we get it, we can be really careless. Most people are like that in business. They suck up to you when you have what they want, but when they have what you want, like the money for your job, they can turn into the devil.

    Sometimes this happens in relationships. At first, when we are in an infatuated relationship with someone who we really want to be liked by, either at work or in a love relationship, we can be very deceptive because we are trying to get approval. So we put on an act in order to get this person to do something. We can’t trust just being our real self; we bundle up our secrets, hide ourselves, even from our children, so these relationships accentuate our shame.

    When we live these two lives, we are coming from shame. Manipulating our presentation of ourselves in order to win approval or respect. Then we get into a relationship and we can’t hide it. They see our two faces and even if they totally love us for who we are, we don’t. And nobody can love you more than you. So, we start getting defensive and love is blocked aga

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