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Sell The Wife!
How to close a deal?Are you involved in the marketing/sales industry?How much deal that you already close?Do you know that there is a few tips that we almost forgot to use?I will share with you on this problem.As a start, I want to ask you... do you know that the first time you show yourself to the customer, definitely you are a bad guy for them? Trust me, this happened to anyone for the salesperson even they have a good looking or good personality. So, don't wait too long to solve this. Now, let me tell you the way to change that "bad" assumption ... allright?First,Create the COMMON BOND as quick as you can. Make them as your "friend" or your "family". It is because people will start talking to you if they like you. And at this time... you must make your customers to feel SAFE. If they feel SAFE with you, they will trust you.Second,Don't try to sell if you want them buy your service/merchandise. Bear this in your mind. People will not BUY if we ask them to BUY. So, how to solve this BIG problem? Anyway, I'm still wanna share with you the "IMPORTANT" tip to solve this problem.But how?It's gonna be like this... "Try to put the "VALUE" on your service or merchandise". Don't push them to buy but, make them "SOLD" to your product and make them feel that "There is no time for me anymore to think about it...so I'll buy from you..."See, if you can put the "VALUE" to your service/merchandise... at the end of the day, PRICE will not be a big prob

hoice you have. You can love people, but not be prepared to enter a relationship with them. That is a friendship. You can love someone and enter a relationship with them, and this means facing the challenges that a relationship brings in order to stay in love. But if you expect to be in a relationship with someone, and not face your ego, not confront your expectations and be revealed in your own judgments, then you do not really want love. You want peace, and in relationship, like nature, peace brings disease.

Medical Billing - DA0 Record Fields 8 Through 16
In this installment of medical billing of claims, we're going to continue with our review of electronically billing claims and the DA0 record, which identifies the payer who is responsible for paying the claim to the provider or patient.DA0 field 8, positions 32 - 35, is the National Payer Claim Office Number. Every payer is assigned a claim office number. This number is usually stored in a lookup table in the software and retrieved prior to transmission. This number must be sent or the claim will be denied.DA0 field 9, positions 36 - 68, is the payer name. This cannot be abbreviated. If you're billing New Jersey Medicare then the name must be complete. You can't just put Medicare or the claim will be denied.DA0 field 10, positions 69 - 88, is the policy group number. Every insurance card has, in addition to the patient ID, a group number that is the same for every patient who uses that carrier. This number must be transmitted accurately or the claim will be denied. The patient ID number is not enough. Red tape - you've got to love it.DA0 field 11, positions 89 - 121, is the group name. This is the generic group name that is given to the insurance carrier and also must be transmitted unless one does not exist, which may be the case with private insurance.DA0 field 12, position 122, is the PPO/HMO Partnership Indicator. This is an indicator that tells if the insurance carrier is linked with a PPO or HMO provider.DA0 field 13, positions 123 - 137, is the PPO/HMO ID Numb

Emotion is energy in motion. At its most primal level it swings between extremes right or wrong, attracted or repelled. Emotion is the opposite to love. Highly emotional people are living in the most fundamental of human consciousness, whether they are fighting for religious causes, or in a relationship fighting to be right. This is emotional unconsciousness; “I’ve got to” do this and “I have to” do that, which are very violent and polarised positions. But nature will not allow this for long.

Nature destroys anything that does not fulfil its purpose, and staying primal, highly emotional, is not fulfilling natures purpose. The result is illness, nervous tension, stress, burnout, depression, disease and relationship failure. Natures weapons are so numerous, and all of them point to emotional stuckness. People who refuse to grow.

The most common way to avoid growth that love brings is by using blame. This moral high ground, emotional reaction and high expectation sits a persons mind high above the rocky swamps of real life authenticity, and is designed to avoid the love that comes from open communication. To stay dry while all else is wet, to keep the ego fully intact, avoid dealing with the stories and beliefs that they are attached to, and blame (judge) others for causing how they feel. Like religious fundamentalism, it is simply an unwillingness to let go of beliefs that come from a primal consciousness and are extremely one sided. Stories.

The more willing you are to see two sides of the coin, the less righteous you will be, and the less emotional your swings of emotion. Instead of “I am right” you might say “maybe we both are right” or you might say “I admit that I can only see my side of the story, and therefore I am wrong” – These honest and authentic statements of confessed righteousness free a person from the cave from which their consciousness is coming from, and steps them out into the possible realm of love. Being right, is the opposite to being in love. Then, as your emotional swings get smaller and smaller, less energy is spent on being right, and more energy is spent on growing and staying in love.

So, we use challenges to grow love. Every time we get challenged (emotionally negative) we process it, and turn it into love. That way, we stay in the honeymood. We can’t just ignore the negative stuff because it builds up, causes abuse, and makes us resentful. We have to process the negative stuff so it doesn’t block our love. It is like moving sand through an hourglass. In the top is the ego. In the bottom is love. We take the experiences at the top, everyday emotion, and move them to love. The more we process through the hourglass, the bigger our love can be.

Emotions block love. No relationship, sacred or otherwise, can thrive when a couple considers their emotions a foundation, because then they can’t grow in love. You can’t base your relationship with someone you love on feelings and emotions. It is a disaster, and you are like a leaf blowing in the wind. The wind (emotions) blow you left, you go left and shut down, they blow you right, and you are infatuated and happy. It is like a little child in a candy shop. No love can last in that whirlwind of emotional drama.

This is the choice you have. You can love people, but not be prepared to enter a relationship with them. That is a friendship. You can love someone and enter a relationship with them, and this means facing the challenges that a relationship brings in order to stay in love. But if you expect to be in a relationship with someone, and not face your ego, not confront your expectations and be revealed in your own judgments, then you do not really want love. You want peace, and in relationship, like nature, peace brings disease.

Affiliate Marketing Essential Tools
There are hundreds of thousands of tools out there to that are marketed as "the tool you need to successes online". A lot of those tools will help. The problem is that if you are not careful you will spend thousands and still be at square one (only with less money). Here are some essential tools every beginning Affiliate Marketer needs.A computer. I know this may seem obvious but lets cover all the bases. Now in picking out a computer you need to remember that you will be launching an affiliate business not launching rockets. You don't have to spend thousands on a computer. A simple computer for under $600 will be just fine. If you want to be more portable you can find laptops for under $700 that will do the job. Lets just assume that you will have an Internet connection to go along with your computer.You will need to sign up with a web host. A web host simply hosts your web sites. Stay away from free hosts. They look very unprofessional. A visitor will think "hey why should I listen to this guy he can't even afford a web host". Now you can find good hosting for lessthan ten bucks a month. Just like with the affiliate programs you join, research your web site host. There are plenty of web hosting forums out there. You are looking for a host that will allow you to host multiple sites under one account. You will also want to find a host that offers cpanel with fantastico. Cpanel is a very easy to use front end to your hosting account. Fantastico gives you tons of scripts that are super eas

le who refuse to grow.

George Soros Says that the War on Terror is Self-Defeating?
Mr. George Soros the self-proclaimed intellectual giant says that the War on Terror is self-defeating in an Op-Ed in the New York Times, that fine recycled rag, which is known to have made up facts in articles, palagiarized and is bound by nothing but hate for our Nations President.We all know that BFI has saved 41 million trees by recycling such paper products and newspapers, but does that give the NYT the right to help a Foreign National tip the scales of the election process in the United States of America?One would suppose that George Soros, the billionaire, could put together a better Op-ed, but with such arrogance and ego, it is obviously from his own pen and gives away his linear thought process, weak neuron transmission rates and skewed view of history and recent reality. Instead we find yet another bogus created reality of the man who lost the Democrats the last election.Well at least he has that claim to fame in America, after all he wants to be known for something it appears. So George should we bake the International Terrorists cookies then? How about milk and cookies and then bake them a cake for desert? Isn’t that really what you want George? To have your cake and eat it too?Luckily in America weakness is not an American Trait and the folks saw thru the last ploy to take over the Democrats Party and where you were able to do that, it is quite evident that the American People shut you down. Now you want to try again.Well keep on talking George Soros, because the more you do

ou might say “maybe we both are right” or you might say “I admit that I can only see my side of the story, and therefore I am wrong” – These honest and authentic statements of confessed righteousness free a person from the cave from which their consciousness is coming from, and steps them out into the possible realm of love. Being right, is the opposite to being in love. Then, as your emotional swings get smaller and smaller, less energy is spent on being right, and more energy is spent on growing and staying in love.

Inexpensive Auto Insurance, Reality or Just a Myth?
The first step to obtaining inexpensive auto insurance is learning the real value of your automobile. The insurance will insure for as much as they possibly can, so do not sit idly back and simply accept the valuation they provide. The information is out there, all you need to do is find it. Review your coverage amounts. Inexpensive auto insurance emerges bit by bit, as you are able to slowly chip away at the excess. If you have health insurance already, take a moment to determine if those benefits will allow you to lower the medical coverage on your policy. Let your insurance provider get to know you.Tell them everything they never wanted to know. Married couples and parents often receive additional discounts as insurance companies view them as maintaining additional responsibilities. Keep your driving record clean. Your record is your biggest step towards achieving your goal of inexpensive auto insurance, so stay as safe as you possibly can. Stick with a used car. Though we’ve all been tempted by that new car smell and untested gas pedal, the newer the car, the higher the premium. It is simply a fact of life. Inexpensive auto insurance is highly allergic to new cars, and avoids them at all costs, regardless of your record. Increase your deductible.Set your deductible amount into your savings account just in case something happens to your automobile, and leave it there. The money will be getting a return in interest for you, and the increased deductible will help lower the amount your insura

stuff so it doesn’t block our love. It is like moving sand through an hourglass. In the top is the ego. In the bottom is love. We take the experiences at the top, everyday emotion, and move them to love. The more we process through the hourglass, the bigger our love can be.

Tell Me What to Do
Because almost everyone has been baffled by Wall Street baloney they have accepted the conventional wisdom that every investor needs a stock broker or financial planner if they are going to invest in the stock market.That would be true if brokers and planners were trained to not only pick stocks, but also protect the investors’ money. Neither is true. That seems like a pretty horrific statement. I know because I used to own a brokerage firm and have hired 300 brokers. Only 1% or 2% of them knew what they were doing and consequently lost money for their clients. That probably applies to so-called financial planners because they all went to the same non-school.Yes, I said they received no training which is true in almost 99% of the individuals. What little ‘advice’ they received was based on false and untrue premises. The Buy and Hold philosophy is the biggest lie of Wall Street. No broker is taught an exit strategy – how and when to sell. Protection of customers’ money should be number one on their list; however, brokerage companies do not want you to sell . They would rather have you go broke. (Of course, they don’t say that.) The investor is quoted the Ibbotson study. Unfortunately, the quote only shares one half of the study and the part about why Buy and Hold does not work is never given.Wall Street has told you that you are too dumb to pick your own investments and that you need a broker to help you decipher the intricate maze that leads to financial freedom. Too bad most brokers haven’t learned

To be in relationship and hold love you need to stay vigilant to your ego. For example, our ego might want to see our partner as only a kind person. Our ego, if we empower it, says this is a good thing. We feel pleasure and this causes us to have a happy emotion. The ego is happy, because there is kind without cruel. But is this real, sustainable, true love, or is it the ego creating the grounds for a disaster in our relationship? The answer is obvious, projections and hopes are not love, they are our expectations, and expectations block love.

Infatuations mean we have half truth ideals and these are our emotional projections onto our beloved. That is not a true love, not love at all, just our emotional projection. In other words, infatuations make us blind to real love. We take our stories, our religious expectations, we take our reactions to our parents and build a model of who we want to be in love with. Then we say we are in love if we think this person matches our made up model. This emotional infatuation means we are having an affair with a fantasy of our beloved, not really accepting them for who they are. We mistake it for love and the confrontation of those expectations is called “growth”.

Long term relationships cannot be based on this projection of fantasy, or delusion. In reality, all people have two sides. The more a person projects their “goodness” on you, the more they have mastered hiding their “badness”, however, in the long term it will surface. Some people learn how to hide their other side, and get under your “half life” radar. This radar is looking for half a person, the good half, and as long as your illusions are justified, you can love them. This is the emotional definition of love, but it is false love, not real. No man or woman is half. They only present half because your projection won’t let them in if they were real and showed you both halves. If they did, you would throw them out, because it would challenge your ideas, your expectations. You get what you want in the short term, the fantasy, but in the long term you get reality, and all your complaining, anger, blame and therapy won’t fix the problem. But there is no problem to fix except your illusion of real people.

To say, “I love you because you are kind”, is the ego speaking. Firstly, because kind has both good and bad in it, which you wont see until later. Secondly, you are assuming that there can be a half person in your life, kind but not unkind. So, we have half information and have an emotional upper. This is not love; it is a happy thought called the honeymoon. Sadly it will not last unless you are prepared to do some process on your expectations. There is nothing wrong with your beloved. You, your mind, your judgements, your expectations are at fault. You can blame them all you want, but this is not true love. And remember, how you treat others is how you treat yourself. How can you love yourself if you can’t accept yourself? You’ll end up your whole life in confession or asking forgiveness for being human. Is that self love, ashamed of who you really are?

This is emotional way of life is all very obvious when I take people trekking in the Himalayas of Nepal. They bring their way of thinking from back home, and try to apply it to walking up the side of steep hills. Their emotions take charge and at the bottom of the hill, they are enthusiastic, infatuated, brimming with excitement. But the hill is so long, that excitement turns to disbelief and frustration (the honeymoon is over). So, about 1 hour into the clim

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