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I Advice - Keeping the Love Alive: Maintaining Good Feelings in Any Kind of Relationship (Part One of Two)
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1. When you sacrifice (do something you don't really want to do for fear of what will happen if you don’t) you have …
2. An unspoken expectation (e.g., they will sacrifice for you later or regard you in a p
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But usually, it’s not without cause. It's most often due to the emotional cancer of resentment. However mild or intense, resentment can erode a relationship. Because it is so subtle in the beginning, you hardly notice as it slowly destroys intimacy and trust and, finally, love.
What causes the cancer to spread? It's sacrifice, doing something for someone else that you don't really want to do, which is driven by the fear of what will happen if you don’t do it.
In general, our culture confuses sacrifice with love, teaching us the virtue of loving others more than ourselves. So we attempt to demonstrate or prove love with sacrifice, and we get upset or feel unloved if others won't sacrifice for us. Yet sacrifice is a wheel that crushes everyone who gets on it. It goes like this:
1. When you sacrifice (do something you don't really want to do for fear of what will happen if you don’t) you have …
2. An unspoken expectation (e.g., they will sacrifice for you later or regard you in a pa
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What causes the cancer to spread? It's sacrifice, doing something for someone else that you don't really want to do, which is driven by the fear of what will happen if you don’t do it.
In general, our culture confuses sacrifice with love, teaching us the virtue of loving others more than ourselves. So we attempt to demonstrate or prove love with sacrifice, and we get upset or feel unloved if others won't sacrifice for us. Yet sacrifice is a wheel that crushes everyone who gets on it. It goes like this:
1. When you sacrifice (do something you don't really want to do for fear of what will happen if you don’t) you have …
2. An unspoken expectation (e.g., they will sacrifice for you later or regard you in a p
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What causes the cancer to spread? It's sacrifice, doing something for someone else that you don't really want to do, which is driven by the fear of what will happen if you don’t do it.
In general, our culture confuses sacrifice with love, teaching us the virtue of loving others more than ourselves. So we attempt to demonstrate or prove love with sacrifice, and we get upset or feel unloved if others won't sacrifice for us. Yet sacrifice is a wheel that crushes everyone who gets on it. It goes like this:
1. When you sacrifice (do something you don't really want to do for fear of what will happen if you don’t) you have …
2. An unspoken expectation (e.g., they will sacrifice for you later or regard you in a p
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1. When you sacrifice (do something you don't really want to do for fear of what will happen if you don’t) you have …
2. An unspoken expectation (e.g., they will sacrifice for you later or regard you in a p
Representative John Murtha has a plan for Iraq. That plan is to prolong the war by denying the troops on the ground support even some of his fellow travelers just months ago said was so desperately needed. That was until President Bush agreed however. Then they changed their minds faster than a patented John Kerry triple flip flop.So John Murtha is stepping up to the plate. His tactic of choice is to attach legislation restricting how the Commander in Chief can run the military to an appropriations bill
1. When you sacrifice (do something you don't really want to do for fear of what will happen if you don’t) you have …
2. An unspoken expectation (e.g., they will sacrifice for you later or regard you in a particular way or love you more) that creates hidden agendas, but, you get …
3. Disappointed because they fail to fulfill their end of the bargain (e.g., love you the way you want them to or do what you want them to) so, you become …
4. Resentful, perhaps angry (“After all I've done for you!”), which leads inevitably to …
5. Guilt (because resentment is an attack on the other and attack always boomerangs at some level), so the best way to atone for your guilt is to …
6. Sacrifice some more to prove what a good and loving person you really are. And ‘round and ‘round you go on the wheel of sacrifice.
You may be wondering if we think it's ever okay to give. Of course! Real service, or authentic giving, has no strings attached and expects nothing in return later. The reward is in the experience of the giving itself.
If you see you’ve been sacrificing, how do you get off this vicious circle? Three ways:
1. Use forgiveness to heal your guilty thoughts and fe
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