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    Why Oil Stocks May be Good for Your Portfolio
    Stock markets love a consensus, but the oil market is one where consensus is very hard to achieve. There is much battle going about oil stocks. Some expect them to keep rising. Some expect them to peak soon. Others expect them to go down in the not-so near future, but down nevertheless. So, who to listen to?Regarding oil stocks, a fundamental that has to be understood about the oil market is that is it driven by the market laws of demand and supply. Demand for oil is on the increase slope. Economic recovery by major world players means that there is more demand for oil. Other emerging big players, like China, are in more and more need of oil, thus raising demand. Countries like China, India and South Korea are also into building their own oil reserves in prediction for increased need in their own economy. This in turn, leads to an increase in demand. However, while supply of oil is still satisfactory, it is however to be noted that there is a tightening of supply on the market. Added to this is the fact that experts are remarking that oil supplies are dwindling. Combined with the other pertinent fact that there is an absence of supply growth, it all leads to imply that supply may not be able to meet the requirements of demand in the future.Since the price mechanism is determined by these market laws, what happens when demand exceeds supply?
    ontinually develop as we live our life. Principles are like lighthouses - we can either use them to guide us or we can choose to go against them and smash into pieces on the rocks!”

    What is Accountability?

    Being held accountable means we accept responsibility for the results of our choices, decisions and behaviors instead of blaming others or external factors. Individuals who believe they are in charge of the quality and direction of their lives, rather than victims of circumstance, are empowered to move forward. They focus on solutions, not problems, and they move forward towards the goals and commitments of their shared vision and purpose, both as individuals and as a couple.

    Successful Commitments and Agreements

    Couples who have clarified

    Foreclosure Investing-Deals-Find Them!
    Some people never accomplish their real estate investment goals because they think there are no good deals left.That is absolutely NOT true. If you know where to look, you will soon realize that there are great opportunities in your area every day of the week.I’m going to tell you how to find great real estate deals at absolutely no charge to you. Why? Because if you’re like most people, you aren’t living the life of your dreams. The vast majority of people are under some type of financial pressure, or don’t have enough money put away for things like college or retirement. Is that you?If it is, I have great news for you! Real estate investing can change your life. And one way for you to be a successful real estate investor is to know how to find great deals. Here are a few ways to find foreclosure deals:Legal notices. Properties that are in foreclosure are required to have their procedural details printed in the local newspaper and/or posted on a public bulletin board at the county courthouse. Because investing in foreclosure and pre-foreclosure properties can be so profitable, these notices are a great place for the savvy real estate investor to find their next great deal.Banks, Brokers,
    Do you make commitments? If so, to whom do you make commitments? What do you make commitments about? What does making a commitment mean to you?

    Do you honor the commitments you make? Do you expect others to honor their commitments? Absolutely? Mostly? Nearly always?

    I have recently been rudely awakened to the unfortunate reality that commitments made by partners in committed relationships may not mean what they used to. I am outraged and alarmed to say the least!

    Recently, I had the great pleasure of interviewing Shirley Glass, Ph.D. on my radio show. Dr. Glass is considered one of the world’s leading experts on infidelity and the author of the groundbreaking new book NOT “Just Friends”: Protect Your Relationship from Infidelity and Heal the Trauma of Betrayal.

    Dr. Glass explains that there is a new crisis of infidelity occurring in the workplace. “In the new infidelity”, she says, “one doesn’t have to have sex to be unfaithful, and infidelity is not between people who are intentionally seeking thrills, as commonly believed. Good people in good marriages-men and women who say they are happily married-are unwittingly forming deep, passionate connections before realizing that they have crossed the line from platonic friendship into romantic love.”

    The subject line of a recent e-mail newsletter from Smartmarriages® read: Online Dating Irresistible to Some Married Folks. The newsletter reports a study of in-depth online interviews with men and women who use Yahoo's "Married and Flirting" or Microsoft's "Married But Flirting" Internet chat rooms geared specifically for married people.

    What is happening to honoring commitments and agreements in committed relationships today? Perhaps in this new world of high tech information, instant gratification and instant messaging we have misplaced the art of creating and honoring commitments and agreements.

    What is commitment?

    When we talk about love and commitment we are really talking about attaching to or connecting with people and things. We connect to ideals, institutions and beliefs; to our families, pets, circle of friends, acquaintances and co-workers; to our community and the planet; and, if we are really blessed, to one very special love.

    When we are able to connect we feel joyful and content. Poor connections can make us feel angry, sad and truly miserable. And the lack of meaningful connections or attachments in our lives can make us feel despair and empty inside ourselves.

    What does it mean to make a commitment?

    When we make a commitment to another person we are making the agreement to be present and available … physically, mentally and emotionally.

    We make agreements by exercising our personal choice. We communicate directly to others about what we will do, how we will behave and what they can reasonably expect from us, and we are willing to be held accountable.

    We honor the agreements we make by choosing the behavior that is driven by our values. Someone once said, “Our personal values are the set of principles we live by and continually develop as we live our life. Principles are like lighthouses - we can either use them to guide us or we can choose to go against them and smash into pieces on the rocks!”

    What is Accountability?

    Being held accountable means we accept responsibility for the results of our choices, decisions and behaviors instead of blaming others or external factors. Individuals who believe they are in charge of the quality and direction of their lives, rather than victims of circumstance, are empowered to move forward. They focus on solutions, not problems, and they move forward towards the goals and commitments of their shared vision and purpose, both as individuals and as a couple.

    Successful Commitments and Agreements

    Couples who have clarified t

    Article Marketing: An Interview with Internet Marketer Don Spanitz
    Welcome to another installment of The Article Guy's Article Marketing Interview Series. Today I interview internet marketer Don Spanitz.1. How did you get started writing articles?I got started writing articles after listening to a teleseminar with Tom Antion and some guy named Jeff Herring. I purchased a set of article writing templates and off I went.2. What has been your biggest mistake?Being a perfectionist. If you don't finish the article, it will never be submitted.3. What has been your biggest success and/or accomplishment?Finishing my first article was my biggest accomplishment. The success is the traffic generated from the resource box in the article.4. Where do you get your ideas?Mostly from my head, but a lot of my ideas are triggered from information I get on the internet.5. What has article writing and article marketing done for you and your business?I am still in the early stages of seeing a benefit from article marketing, but the recognition and traffic is starting to pick up.Points we can use1. Don't be a perfectionist. Don really said it best, didn't he - "If you don't finish the article, it will never be submitted."2. It takes some time for your recognition and traffic to pick. Be patient and consistent and it will.3. Just start.
    of Betrayal.

    Dr. Glass explains that there is a new crisis of infidelity occurring in the workplace. “In the new infidelity”, she says, “one doesn’t have to have sex to be unfaithful, and infidelity is not between people who are intentionally seeking thrills, as commonly believed. Good people in good marriages-men and women who say they are happily married-are unwittingly forming deep, passionate connections before realizing that they have crossed the line from platonic friendship into romantic love.”

    The subject line of a recent e-mail newsletter from Smartmarriages® read: Online Dating Irresistible to Some Married Folks. The newsletter reports a study of in-depth online interviews with men and women who use Yahoo's "Married and Flirting" or Microsoft's "Married But Flirting" Internet chat rooms geared specifically for married people.

    What is happening to honoring commitments and agreements in committed relationships today? Perhaps in this new world of high tech information, instant gratification and instant messaging we have misplaced the art of creating and honoring commitments and agreements.

    What is commitment?

    When we talk about love and commitment we are really talking about attaching to or connecting with people and things. We connect to ideals, institutions and beliefs; to our families, pets, circle of friends, acquaintances and co-workers; to our community and the planet; and, if we are really blessed, to one very special love.

    When we are able to connect we feel joyful and content. Poor connections can make us feel angry, sad and truly miserable. And the lack of meaningful connections or attachments in our lives can make us feel despair and empty inside ourselves.

    What does it mean to make a commitment?

    When we make a commitment to another person we are making the agreement to be present and available … physically, mentally and emotionally.

    We make agreements by exercising our personal choice. We communicate directly to others about what we will do, how we will behave and what they can reasonably expect from us, and we are willing to be held accountable.

    We honor the agreements we make by choosing the behavior that is driven by our values. Someone once said, “Our personal values are the set of principles we live by and continually develop as we live our life. Principles are like lighthouses - we can either use them to guide us or we can choose to go against them and smash into pieces on the rocks!”

    What is Accountability?

    Being held accountable means we accept responsibility for the results of our choices, decisions and behaviors instead of blaming others or external factors. Individuals who believe they are in charge of the quality and direction of their lives, rather than victims of circumstance, are empowered to move forward. They focus on solutions, not problems, and they move forward towards the goals and commitments of their shared vision and purpose, both as individuals and as a couple.

    Successful Commitments and Agreements

    Couples who have clarified

    Let's All Stand Up and Give Soaring Gas Prices a Big Hand of Applause!
    No? You are not happy about our gas prices? Well, honestly I'm not either, but the more I thought about it, the more I came to believe that perhaps our soaring gas prices and dependence on foreign oil has turned out to be a blessing in disguise.The auto industry has the technology to build fuel efficient cars, it has had much of this technology for decades, but it has not developed this technology into cost effective mass marketed vehicles. Why? Because the consumer has not demanded it. No matter what, the auto industry is and always will be consumer driven.As long as the consumer continues to purchase what the industry is putting out, they will keep building what they are building. Granted, because of emission controls and higher mileage standards over the years we now have less harmful emissions and better mileage than we did twenty years ago. While this has been a great start we cannot let that become a stopping point.Let's take realistic look at where we are today and how we, as consumers, can help insure a more cost efficient and healthier future for ourselves, our children and generations to come. We now have hybrid cars that provide much better fuel efficiency and less pollutants, and fuel cell vehicles that use no gasoline and produce no harmful emissions.Both hybrid and fuel cell vehicles are currently bei
    "Married But Flirting" Internet chat rooms geared specifically for married people.

    What is happening to honoring commitments and agreements in committed relationships today? Perhaps in this new world of high tech information, instant gratification and instant messaging we have misplaced the art of creating and honoring commitments and agreements.

    What is commitment?

    When we talk about love and commitment we are really talking about attaching to or connecting with people and things. We connect to ideals, institutions and beliefs; to our families, pets, circle of friends, acquaintances and co-workers; to our community and the planet; and, if we are really blessed, to one very special love.

    When we are able to connect we feel joyful and content. Poor connections can make us feel angry, sad and truly miserable. And the lack of meaningful connections or attachments in our lives can make us feel despair and empty inside ourselves.

    What does it mean to make a commitment?

    When we make a commitment to another person we are making the agreement to be present and available … physically, mentally and emotionally.

    We make agreements by exercising our personal choice. We communicate directly to others about what we will do, how we will behave and what they can reasonably expect from us, and we are willing to be held accountable.

    We honor the agreements we make by choosing the behavior that is driven by our values. Someone once said, “Our personal values are the set of principles we live by and continually develop as we live our life. Principles are like lighthouses - we can either use them to guide us or we can choose to go against them and smash into pieces on the rocks!”

    What is Accountability?

    Being held accountable means we accept responsibility for the results of our choices, decisions and behaviors instead of blaming others or external factors. Individuals who believe they are in charge of the quality and direction of their lives, rather than victims of circumstance, are empowered to move forward. They focus on solutions, not problems, and they move forward towards the goals and commitments of their shared vision and purpose, both as individuals and as a couple.

    Successful Commitments and Agreements

    Couples who have clarified

    I'm an Affiliate - Why Write Articles?
    Many affiliates think that they shouldn’t need to write articles as they get all the good content they require for their site from their affiliate programs.Usually that is true, but now more than ever visitors to sites are looking for those that have unique content. So by writing your own articles, you can have the most powerful marketing tool available. Many affiliates will not believe this, but visitors to their sites will want to read what you have to say at your site and not what other people have to say that you have used from other sites. Many visitors will be looking to your site for independent advice and content which will hopefully support of refute information that they have found at another site.Another reason for affiliates to produce their own articles rather than using others is that visitors to your site may already have read the articles produced by others on your site elsewhere on the internet. However, it is perfectly reasonable and certainly beneficial to yourself and the other author to use their articles on your site, but you should also remember to feature your own articles as well. Below are provided four good reasons as to why an affiliate should start writing their own articles. Firstly, by writing an article containing unique content they are distinguishing themselves from about 90% of other affiliates. App
    Poor connections can make us feel angry, sad and truly miserable. And the lack of meaningful connections or attachments in our lives can make us feel despair and empty inside ourselves.

    What does it mean to make a commitment?

    When we make a commitment to another person we are making the agreement to be present and available … physically, mentally and emotionally.

    We make agreements by exercising our personal choice. We communicate directly to others about what we will do, how we will behave and what they can reasonably expect from us, and we are willing to be held accountable.

    We honor the agreements we make by choosing the behavior that is driven by our values. Someone once said, “Our personal values are the set of principles we live by and continually develop as we live our life. Principles are like lighthouses - we can either use them to guide us or we can choose to go against them and smash into pieces on the rocks!”

    What is Accountability?

    Being held accountable means we accept responsibility for the results of our choices, decisions and behaviors instead of blaming others or external factors. Individuals who believe they are in charge of the quality and direction of their lives, rather than victims of circumstance, are empowered to move forward. They focus on solutions, not problems, and they move forward towards the goals and commitments of their shared vision and purpose, both as individuals and as a couple.

    Successful Commitments and Agreements

    Couples who have clarified

    How to Delight Your Customers
    If you think good customer service leads directly to customer satisfaction, think again.These days, it's all about "customer delight," says Sheri Bridges, a marketing professor at Wake Forest University in the United States. She defines a "delightful" consumer experience as one so personalised that an individual's preferences and needs are taken into account.Known variously as customer relationship management (CRM) and one-to-one marketing, personalisation is being practiced by businesses large and small across all sectors of the economy. It relies on technology (personal computers, database-management tools, the internet) to give marketers greater access to and knowledge of their customers than ever before.This ethos is one that cannot be "installed" at a business, says Martha Rogers, a principal with partner Don Peppers in the Peppers & Rogers Group and a leading CRM guru. It must be "adopted" as an integral part of the company's culture. For sake of explanation, a personalised approach to customer service can be broken into three steps: identifying the customer, learning about the customer, and serving the customer.Be on Target with Your Marketing "The essence of good customer service is good targeting," Bridges says. The message here is simple: You don't want to lavish personal attention on customers who aren't going to r
    ontinually develop as we live our life. Principles are like lighthouses - we can either use them to guide us or we can choose to go against them and smash into pieces on the rocks!”

    What is Accountability?

    Being held accountable means we accept responsibility for the results of our choices, decisions and behaviors instead of blaming others or external factors. Individuals who believe they are in charge of the quality and direction of their lives, rather than victims of circumstance, are empowered to move forward. They focus on solutions, not problems, and they move forward towards the goals and commitments of their shared vision and purpose, both as individuals and as a couple.

    Successful Commitments and Agreements

    Couples who have clarified their own personal values, and individual and couple visions and purpose have a stronger foundation from which to commit to their agreements and achieve more consistent and satisfying results. Their overall effectiveness in making and honoring agreements is greatly increased. Success is an almost certainty when both partners keep their agreements and most certainly can be at risk if one person doesn't keep his or her agreements.

    Crafting Elegant Agreements

    Life is an ongoing process of creating agreements with others. An effective agreement means more than getting another person to do what you want. It means buy-in and true commitment from both people.

    Most couples have hopes and dreams, and desires and expectations. They establish goals and make commitments that are developed from a joint visioning process; a process that expresses an inclusive vision of desired outcomes; their road map to success!

    Another way to look at this is that we join forces with others by forming agreements. Agreements are expressed in writing or verbally during very intentional conversations. Most of us have never learned how to craft effective, explicit agreements. It is a skill we were never taught, even though it is fundamental to all relationships and a basic life skill.

    While this is a method offered for committed partners, any two or more people who wish to make agreements can easily adapt it. So here goes!

    Here is a straightforward 15-step method you can use to craft elegant and effective agreements:

    1. Create and clearly articulate your joint vision with as much rich detail as possible. Be sure that both of you participate with eagerness and passion;

    2. Be sure that both of you are creating the agreement with intention and with a belief that you are well served making and honoring the agreement;

    3. Make a list of each person’s strengths, gifts, skills and talents that are available to be drawn on by each of you.

    4. Identify, with as much detail as possible, all the aspects of what it is you are coming to agreement about. A joint plan works best when you are both working toward the same joint vision;

    5. Be certain that each of you understands and acknowledges the actions (behaviors), attitudes, and responsibilities that are associated with the agreement for yourself and your partner;

    6. Decide together if the actions and attitudes are sufficient to result in the desired outcome(s). If no, identify what additional actions and attitudes must be included and by whom;

    7. All agreements must have specific time deadlines for each part of the agreement to be completed or finalized. These are “by whens”—by when will you do this, and by when will you do that. In addition, the time period the agreement will be in force must be specified.

    8. Does the agreement as a whole and do all the parts of the agreement forward the joint vision?

    9. Clearly identify the evidence or positive outcome(s) that you expect to result for each person from making and honoring the agreement;

    10. Does the agreem

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