wn world, contemplating the day’s activities. One day I say hello back. This continues for a couple weeks. “Hello” “Good morning”. We continue to greet each other day after day. Then one Friday morning he wishes me a good weekend. Then on the following Friday he wishes me a good weekend again.

On Monday the security guard asks me “How was

It’s 8:00 AM. I take the same route to work each day, seeing the same places and familiar faces. I walk by the bus terminal and see the busload of business people coming from the northern suburbs of Minneapolis, hustling onto the escalators and dispersing throughout downtown to the many buildings and offices.

I walk by the muffin shop, where there’s always a line for muffins and coffee. I see people dropping-off their laundry at the dry cleaners, and the line at the Starbucks for a morning boost.

I walk through Marshal Field’s, and pass by the security guard stationed in front of the men’s shirts, dressed in the standard uniform, black pants, black shoes, and white shirt. He’s a tall, slender attractive African American with a mustache and dimples. The security guard greets everyone that walks by. No one is left-out. “Hello”, “Good morning”, “How are you”. He makes small talk with many of the passer-byers, complimenting their outfits, and wishing them well.

I admire how he knows so many people by their first name. His simple hello makes people feel special. He’s more than a security guard; he’s a staple of the morning rush. His presence and cheerful smile becomes a part of my day. When he’s absent, it’s noticed. I feel an emptiness.

The first few times I see the security guard, I don’t say hello back to him when he says hello to me. I’m in my own world, contemplating the day’s activities. One day I say hello back. This continues for a couple weeks. “Hello” “Good morning”. We continue to greet each other day after day. Then one Friday morning he wishes me a good weekend. Then on the following Friday he wishes me a good weekend again.

On Monday the security guard asks me “How was y

re there’s always a line for muffins and coffee. I see people dropping-off their laundry at the dry cleaners, and the line at the Starbucks for a morning boost.

I walk through Marshal Field’s, and pass by the security guard stationed in front of the men’s shirts, dressed in the standard uniform, black pants, black shoes, and white shirt. He’s a tall, slender attractive African American with a mustache and dimples. The security guard greets everyone that walks by. No one is left-out. “Hello”, “Good morning”, “How are you”. He makes small talk with many of the passer-byers, complimenting their outfits, and wishing them well.

I admire how he knows so many people by their first name. His simple hello makes people feel special. He’s more than a security guard; he’s a staple of the morning rush. His presence and cheerful smile becomes a part of my day. When he’s absent, it’s noticed. I feel an emptiness.

The first few times I see the security guard, I don’t say hello back to him when he says hello to me. I’m in my own world, contemplating the day’s activities. One day I say hello back. This continues for a couple weeks. “Hello” “Good morning”. We continue to greet each other day after day. Then one Friday morning he wishes me a good weekend. Then on the following Friday he wishes me a good weekend again.

On Monday the security guard asks me “How was

’s a tall, slender attractive African American with a mustache and dimples. The security guard greets everyone that walks by. No one is left-out. “Hello”, “Good morning”, “How are you”. He makes small talk with many of the passer-byers, complimenting their outfits, and wishing them well.

I admire how he knows so many people by their first name. His simple hello makes people feel special. He’s more than a security guard; he’s a staple of the morning rush. His presence and cheerful smile becomes a part of my day. When he’s absent, it’s noticed. I feel an emptiness.

The first few times I see the security guard, I don’t say hello back to him when he says hello to me. I’m in my own world, contemplating the day’s activities. One day I say hello back. This continues for a couple weeks. “Hello” “Good morning”. We continue to greet each other day after day. Then one Friday morning he wishes me a good weekend. Then on the following Friday he wishes me a good weekend again.

On Monday the security guard asks me “How was

name. His simple hello makes people feel special. He’s more than a security guard; he’s a staple of the morning rush. His presence and cheerful smile becomes a part of my day. When he’s absent, it’s noticed. I feel an emptiness.

The first few times I see the security guard, I don’t say hello back to him when he says hello to me. I’m in my own world, contemplating the day’s activities. One day I say hello back. This continues for a couple weeks. “Hello” “Good morning”. We continue to greet each other day after day. Then one Friday morning he wishes me a good weekend. Then on the following Friday he wishes me a good weekend again.

On Monday the security guard asks me “How was

wn world, contemplating the day’s activities. One day I say hello back. This continues for a couple weeks. “Hello” “Good morning”. We continue to greet each other day after day. Then one Friday morning he wishes me a good weekend. Then on the following Friday he wishes me a good weekend again.

On Monday the security guard asks me “How was your weekend”. I tell him about my visit to California, to see my mother, who has colon cancer. I share how I visit her each month. And this last weekend Mom and I went to the family cabin near Lake Tahoe to say good-bye to the cabin before it sold. “My time with Mother is so precious, because I know that each time may be the last. I feel sadness. I feel love. I feel fortunate to have the gift of time.”

He listens like a concerned friend I’ve known for years. He feels my sadness and my love. He tells me how sorry he is to hear about my mother. And what a gift it is to have the time with her that I have.

He shares how he lost his father to cancer two years ago. “I understand what you are going through, I think about my father every day. He passed away while I was serving in Germany. I was three months from retiring from being in the service for over 22 years. Do to circumstances I was unable to fly back in time. I was unable to say good-bye or be at the funeral. I wish I could have been with him. Given him a hug. Told him I loved him. Said good. You are lucky to have the gift of time.”

As I walk away, I realize I do not even know his name. I’m touched by the exchange and how compassionate and understanding the security guard is. He’s more than a security guard or a stranger, he’s a person that has touched me and who understands what I’m going through.