This isn’t a good sign. She absolutely must be attracted to you at this point, or there’s no reason to get her number. Here’s what SHOULD be going through her mind at this point: “Oh no, I don’t want him to leave, he’s so fun. I wonder if I’ll ever see this guy again?” It should almost be like the awkward moment before a first kiss. Now when you ask for her number, you are actually giving her an opportunity to continue the experience you just shared together. Now it’s a positive thing. Now she really wants to give it to you.

So, what’s the easiest way to ask for it? Don’t ask. Most people these days have cell phones. Just open your cell phone and hand it to her. You don’t have to make a big deal out of it. People almost always take whatever you hand to them. (Just a silly truth about humans.) So now that she’s holding your phone, her brain will comply with th

There’s a lot of information out there about getting a girl’s number. It’s a big topic and every guru has their own method for getting numbers smoothly. It’s kind of funny that people get so hyped up over something so simple, however it is a very important step in going from the first meeting to the date and so you must know how to do it effectively if you ever want to see that blonde bombshell again.

There are a lot of good methods, such as David DeAngelo’s “get her to write her email down and then casually mention that she should write her number too” approach. Then there’s the Art of the Pickup Method where you write your name on a piece of paper, tear it into two pieces, and hand both pieces and a pen to her. No words necessary. She writes her number on the empty one and keeps the other. Although these are good approaches, let’s examine what actually happens at the moment a woman gives you her number.

What is the purpose of getting her number in the first place? Why would she even want to give it to you? The answer is she wants to meet up again. You both know that there will be no follow-up meeting without a way to contact one another. This is the only role of the number. It is simply a link. She knows this just as well as you do. If a woman won’t give you her number, or gives you a false number, there is only one reason for it: She doesn’t want to see you again. Ouch! The truth hurts, son.

But let me tell you from personal experience that it’s all a matter of timing. You have to spend enough time with her flirting and getting her interested that she does want to see you again. If you ask before she’s completely captivated, it ain’t gonna happen. And all your hopes for further interaction are out the window.

Make sure she’s hooked on you before you ask. Plain and simple. At that point, it’s relatively easy for her to feel comfortable giving up the digits. Here’s how I like to structure it:
-After opening and meeting her, get her chatting for a bit.
-Always keep things light, fun, and flirty. Accuse her of hitting on you, etc.
-Make her laugh, smile, and really open up to you. Make sure she touches you first.
-After she touches you, you can feel free to start touching her back in fun, playful ways, nothing sexual.
-When you’ve gotten enough signs of interest to know she’s really into you, this is where you can either: (a) suggest a date (not ask for, suggest) ex. “I’ll be going out to the comedy club this weekend, you should come with me”, “That’s awesome that you’re into sports, we should watch a game together” or (b) Say you’ve had fun but you need to get going.

Suggesting the date at this point is actually a great idea, because once she has agreed that it would be fun, she now has a concrete reason for giving you her number. She has to if she wants to continue having fun with you. Once she has agreed that she’d like to do that, you can wrap up the interaction by going to (b). (This should actually be where you need to leave her to get somewhere else, so save this until you are ready to separate. It’s best to keep first meetings short and sweet anyway.) Simply let her know you’ve got to go, and tell her you’ve had fun.

Here’s where my number getting strategy comes in. You just told her that you’re leaving after she’s had so much fun with you. This should actually be a let down for her. If she isn’t at least a little bothered by this news, she probably doesn’t care if she gets to see more of you or not. This isn’t a good sign. She absolutely must be attracted to you at this point, or there’s no reason to get her number. Here’s what SHOULD be going through her mind at this point: “Oh no, I don’t want him to leave, he’s so fun. I wonder if I’ll ever see this guy again?” It should almost be like the awkward moment before a first kiss. Now when you ask for her number, you are actually giving her an opportunity to continue the experience you just shared together. Now it’s a positive thing. Now she really wants to give it to you.

So, what’s the easiest way to ask for it? Don’t ask. Most people these days have cell phones. Just open your cell phone and hand it to her. You don’t have to make a big deal out of it. People almost always take whatever you hand to them. (Just a silly truth about humans.) So now that she’s holding your phone, her brain will comply with the

moment a woman gives you her number.

What is the purpose of getting her number in the first place? Why would she even want to give it to you? The answer is she wants to meet up again. You both know that there will be no follow-up meeting without a way to contact one another. This is the only role of the number. It is simply a link. She knows this just as well as you do. If a woman won’t give you her number, or gives you a false number, there is only one reason for it: She doesn’t want to see you again. Ouch! The truth hurts, son.

But let me tell you from personal experience that it’s all a matter of timing. You have to spend enough time with her flirting and getting her interested that she does want to see you again. If you ask before she’s completely captivated, it ain’t gonna happen. And all your hopes for further interaction are out the window.

Make sure she’s hooked on you before you ask. Plain and simple. At that point, it’s relatively easy for her to feel comfortable giving up the digits. Here’s how I like to structure it:
-After opening and meeting her, get her chatting for a bit.
-Always keep things light, fun, and flirty. Accuse her of hitting on you, etc.
-Make her laugh, smile, and really open up to you. Make sure she touches you first.
-After she touches you, you can feel free to start touching her back in fun, playful ways, nothing sexual.
-When you’ve gotten enough signs of interest to know she’s really into you, this is where you can either: (a) suggest a date (not ask for, suggest) ex. “I’ll be going out to the comedy club this weekend, you should come with me”, “That’s awesome that you’re into sports, we should watch a game together” or (b) Say you’ve had fun but you need to get going.

Suggesting the date at this point is actually a great idea, because once she has agreed that it would be fun, she now has a concrete reason for giving you her number. She has to if she wants to continue having fun with you. Once she has agreed that she’d like to do that, you can wrap up the interaction by going to (b). (This should actually be where you need to leave her to get somewhere else, so save this until you are ready to separate. It’s best to keep first meetings short and sweet anyway.) Simply let her know you’ve got to go, and tell her you’ve had fun.

Here’s where my number getting strategy comes in. You just told her that you’re leaving after she’s had so much fun with you. This should actually be a let down for her. If she isn’t at least a little bothered by this news, she probably doesn’t care if she gets to see more of you or not. This isn’t a good sign. She absolutely must be attracted to you at this point, or there’s no reason to get her number. Here’s what SHOULD be going through her mind at this point: “Oh no, I don’t want him to leave, he’s so fun. I wonder if I’ll ever see this guy again?” It should almost be like the awkward moment before a first kiss. Now when you ask for her number, you are actually giving her an opportunity to continue the experience you just shared together. Now it’s a positive thing. Now she really wants to give it to you.

So, what’s the easiest way to ask for it? Don’t ask. Most people these days have cell phones. Just open your cell phone and hand it to her. You don’t have to make a big deal out of it. People almost always take whatever you hand to them. (Just a silly truth about humans.) So now that she’s holding your phone, her brain will comply with th

ake sure she’s hooked on you before you ask. Plain and simple. At that point, it’s relatively easy for her to feel comfortable giving up the digits. Here’s how I like to structure it:
-After opening and meeting her, get her chatting for a bit.
-Always keep things light, fun, and flirty. Accuse her of hitting on you, etc.
-Make her laugh, smile, and really open up to you. Make sure she touches you first.
-After she touches you, you can feel free to start touching her back in fun, playful ways, nothing sexual.
-When you’ve gotten enough signs of interest to know she’s really into you, this is where you can either: (a) suggest a date (not ask for, suggest) ex. “I’ll be going out to the comedy club this weekend, you should come with me”, “That’s awesome that you’re into sports, we should watch a game together” or (b) Say you’ve had fun but you need to get going.

Suggesting the date at this point is actually a great idea, because once she has agreed that it would be fun, she now has a concrete reason for giving you her number. She has to if she wants to continue having fun with you. Once she has agreed that she’d like to do that, you can wrap up the interaction by going to (b). (This should actually be where you need to leave her to get somewhere else, so save this until you are ready to separate. It’s best to keep first meetings short and sweet anyway.) Simply let her know you’ve got to go, and tell her you’ve had fun.

Here’s where my number getting strategy comes in. You just told her that you’re leaving after she’s had so much fun with you. This should actually be a let down for her. If she isn’t at least a little bothered by this news, she probably doesn’t care if she gets to see more of you or not. This isn’t a good sign. She absolutely must be attracted to you at this point, or there’s no reason to get her number. Here’s what SHOULD be going through her mind at this point: “Oh no, I don’t want him to leave, he’s so fun. I wonder if I’ll ever see this guy again?” It should almost be like the awkward moment before a first kiss. Now when you ask for her number, you are actually giving her an opportunity to continue the experience you just shared together. Now it’s a positive thing. Now she really wants to give it to you.

So, what’s the easiest way to ask for it? Don’t ask. Most people these days have cell phones. Just open your cell phone and hand it to her. You don’t have to make a big deal out of it. People almost always take whatever you hand to them. (Just a silly truth about humans.) So now that she’s holding your phone, her brain will comply with th

ed to get going.

Suggesting the date at this point is actually a great idea, because once she has agreed that it would be fun, she now has a concrete reason for giving you her number. She has to if she wants to continue having fun with you. Once she has agreed that she’d like to do that, you can wrap up the interaction by going to (b). (This should actually be where you need to leave her to get somewhere else, so save this until you are ready to separate. It’s best to keep first meetings short and sweet anyway.) Simply let her know you’ve got to go, and tell her you’ve had fun.

Here’s where my number getting strategy comes in. You just told her that you’re leaving after she’s had so much fun with you. This should actually be a let down for her. If she isn’t at least a little bothered by this news, she probably doesn’t care if she gets to see more of you or not. This isn’t a good sign. She absolutely must be attracted to you at this point, or there’s no reason to get her number. Here’s what SHOULD be going through her mind at this point: “Oh no, I don’t want him to leave, he’s so fun. I wonder if I’ll ever see this guy again?” It should almost be like the awkward moment before a first kiss. Now when you ask for her number, you are actually giving her an opportunity to continue the experience you just shared together. Now it’s a positive thing. Now she really wants to give it to you.

So, what’s the easiest way to ask for it? Don’t ask. Most people these days have cell phones. Just open your cell phone and hand it to her. You don’t have to make a big deal out of it. People almost always take whatever you hand to them. (Just a silly truth about humans.) So now that she’s holding your phone, her brain will comply with th

This isn’t a good sign. She absolutely must be attracted to you at this point, or there’s no reason to get her number. Here’s what SHOULD be going through her mind at this point: “Oh no, I don’t want him to leave, he’s so fun. I wonder if I’ll ever see this guy again?” It should almost be like the awkward moment before a first kiss. Now when you ask for her number, you are actually giving her an opportunity to continue the experience you just shared together. Now it’s a positive thing. Now she really wants to give it to you.

So, what’s the easiest way to ask for it? Don’t ask. Most people these days have cell phones. Just open your cell phone and hand it to her. You don’t have to make a big deal out of it. People almost always take whatever you hand to them. (Just a silly truth about humans.) So now that she’s holding your phone, her brain will comply with the physical action of taking the phone and rationalize that she wanted this opportunity to give you her number. Bottom line, she’ll most likely know what to do. If she asks or hesitates, tell her “Just type your number in and I’ll call you later this week.” She’ll do it.

The bonuses of this technique are: you don’t have to ask, you don’t have to have a pen and paper, and you don’t have to make an excuse for why you want to get her number, she already knows why and wants the same thing. One more bonus is that if she isn’t sure how to work your phone, you can get close to her, put an arm around her and help her out with it (but don’t kiss her yet, even if she wants it, make her wait, hahaha). ;) Also, you can call her phone on the spot if you want to verify her number. You may or may not want her to have your number at this point, but this is an easy way to make sure its her real number, its not typed in wrong, etc. Then go about your merry way and let her think about you and start waiting for your call.

Well fellas, that’s my advice on the number close. (The “Romeo technique” if you will.) Get out and make some ladies happy.

CJ Romero

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