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How To Prepare A Business Plan That Guarantees Big Profits nced and can 'develop' because of their natural (yes I said it) role of head of the house and leader.It is always said "If you Fail to Plan, you Plan to Fail" Success in business comes as a result of planning. You have to have a detailed, written plan that shows what the ultimate goal is, the reason for the goal, and each milestone that must be passed in order to reach your goal. A business plan is written definition of, and operational plan for achieving your goal. You need a complete but success tool in order to define your basic product, income objectives and specific operating procedures. YOU HAVE TO HAVE A BUSINESS PLAN to attract investors, obtain financing and hold onto the confidence of your creditors, particularly in times of cash flow shortages--in this instance, the amount of money you have on hand compared with the expenses that must be met. Aside from an overall directional policy for the production, sales effort a So men don't want to be 'wussy'...they have emotions and I admit that it's gotten out of control but there's a deeper context here. Other guru's don't realize the full fragile balance of power in a relationship. Unfortunately for men to be successful with you as a woman who is reading, they will have to repress their emotions in order to avoid swinging the delicate balance of power over into your favor. And if they do show any sign, you'll lose interest in reality and it's over. Quite tragic in a way. One answer for millions of men is to find natural women; women with whom they actually CAN show emotion who will reciprocate the emotion and not lose attraction to him but actually grow stronger in healthy attraction to him. I've experienced this countless times and that's the natural way of things; it's the way it's meant to be and the natural alpha women are experiencing in reality what the prada's and prickteases only fantasize about because they are in touch with their natural character in their behavioral reality. That is the natural way of things and it's what Top 7 Small Business Resources for 2005 This topic can be looked at from different angles.If you want to start a business in 2005, and start making money almost immediately, the sites listed below are some of the best I have found. I've chosen each site because it is absolutely outstanding in providing the tools you need to get started, as well as taking you through the steps you need to get started immediately.My1stBusiness.com - http://www.my1stbusiness.com - This site is owned by Ben Botes, who is currently working on a doctoral degree in business. Ben will take you through every phase of creating your business, and it doesn't matter how large or small it is. You'll find all of the information you need right here.Teleclasses are currently free, and you'll find a wide variety of top notch business coaches to help you build your business.This site is scheduled to go to a paid model soon, but it will definitely be worth In most cases it will only hurt the man and the relationship. In general, the dynamics of a lasting relationship includes the man having the (invisible) relational authority and the woman, without challenging that, remaining as more of the submisser. That is the natural relational dynamic which lasts. Natural women know their place and don't challenge the man's natural authority in the relationship. Today's independent women immediately want to challenge that timeless fact and it brings up all kinds of byproducts such as a 50% divorce rate. A natural woman though, doesn't want to become the man or lead the relationship, nor have him do her natural roles which she does best. The man should also respect and love the woman for the role she is doing while supporting his role (as provider/protector). With that said, our dynamics have changed. That's why millions of men are confused. Men can be themselves in a relationship and their wife will often take over the relationship because of her own development and he doesn't know how to behave around it because it's unnatural (which she doesn't realize). Those are just some of the dynamics we have today extrapolated into a longer term relationship. So...when dealing with the empowered women upfront it just isn't really safe to tell her how a man feels anyways. Relationships are a balance of power. Like I already covered; lasting relationships have one unspoken leader (usually the man) and the other (the wife who doesn't challenge his natural authority). I've seen many relationships where the woman takes on the role of wearing the pants in the family. Those relationships can last but it's unnatural for a man to be repressed that much and he just puts up with her control. So if relationships are a delicate power balance, which both parties knew instinctively (and women have developed past their instinctiveness), they are now more of a power balance than ever. Since First World women now have 'power', relationships of any form become a power struggle or balance of power. There will be turmoil if there isn't one official 'lead' of the relationship. Unfortunately, when a man tells a woman 'how he feels' even in a short-term 'dating' relationship, this basically means that he has given up her power to her and she now has the true yet often hidden 'relational authority' of the relationship. She now 'owns him' and only because of who she is. Natural women don't have this problem. They instinctively know their natural role and stay in proper relational dynamic with men which lasts. Their love will only grow stronger provided he doesn't 'overdo it' and really give the power to her. With an empowered woman who already has power, if a man says something like this, he looks weak and she has the authority and takes over. All of this prevents men from telling how they feel unless they're an 'EMO' wussbag who is sprouting out all of his pent up emotions for an 'independent and wonderful' woman. Unfortunately in the true relational 'power' dynamic, he has given his power up to the woman. I have to re-emphasize again that natural women do not have this problem. So while many dating guru's are immediately blaming the men as wussies for showing ANY kind of emotion, they're missing the dynamics which currently exist. Our female behavior prevents most men from showing any kind of emotion without losing his relational authority. She'll start losing interest immediately just alone for the fact that she is so developed and the relational power balance is extremely delicate (and many men HAVE become 'fragile'). Many men are fragile because of our media propagation of gay role models instead of masculine alpha models. This will only grow further in the direction it's going with more and more female 'empowerment'. Sure, women may want 'men to be men' but the reality is, though it started out as an equality movement, women have grown unnaturally equal..they've grown 'stronger' and more powerful. None of this helps real or lasting relationships. Men don't even have the freedom to tell a woman how he feels. Heck, even strong men like me who retain authority over a relationship have VERY little squeeze room to express ourselves without her losing immediate interest. Girls, this is all to your detriment for better and worse. I predict that you won't change. You can't because you don't have a supportive 'stimulus' of an environment which has it's priorities on natural attributes and happiness instead of socially-driven 'career' advancement. Once you develop, it's hard to behaviorally go back to your roots. The advantage men have is that they can be more balanced and can 'develop' because of their natural (yes I said it) role of head of the house and leader. So men don't want to be 'wussy'...they have emotions and I admit that it's gotten out of control but there's a deeper context here. Other guru's don't realize the full fragile balance of power in a relationship. Unfortunately for men to be successful with you as a woman who is reading, they will have to repress their emotions in order to avoid swinging the delicate balance of power over into your favor. And if they do show any sign, you'll lose interest in reality and it's over. Quite tragic in a way. One answer for millions of men is to find natural women; women with whom they actually CAN show emotion who will reciprocate the emotion and not lose attraction to him but actually grow stronger in healthy attraction to him. I've experienced this countless times and that's the natural way of things; it's the way it's meant to be and the natural alpha women are experiencing in reality what the prada's and prickteases only fantasize about because they are in touch with their natural character in their behavioral reality. That is the natural way of things and it's what m Article Writing: Who Else Believes They Cannot Write? e are just some of the dynamics we have today extrapolated into a longer term relationship. So...when dealing with the empowered women upfront it just isn't really safe to tell her
how a man feels anyways.Have you ever believed you could not write?I know I used to believe that.I'm one of the lucky ones, blessed I guess, in that I've almost always know what I wanted to be when I grew up, which was a counselor, therapist, etc. I just didn't know all the different and unexpected places it would lead me.I got my bachelors and masters degrees without a whole lot of trouble. I was living a dream and all the studying did not seem like work.I felt the same way about my doctoral program until we got to the dissertation. I just could not write that thing. I've got the Ph. but not the D.I gave up getting that degree many years ago because I believed I could not write. While there may be some who would still agree with that assessment, there are others who think I blew that limitation out of the water.I certainly never expe Relationships are a balance of power. Like I already covered; lasting relationships have one unspoken leader (usually the man) and the other (the wife who doesn't challenge his natural authority). I've seen many relationships where the woman takes on the role of wearing the pants in the family. Those relationships can last but it's unnatural for a man to be repressed that much and he just puts up with her control. So if relationships are a delicate power balance, which both parties knew instinctively (and women have developed past their instinctiveness), they are now more of a power balance than ever. Since First World women now have 'power', relationships of any form become a power struggle or balance of power. There will be turmoil if there isn't one official 'lead' of the relationship. Unfortunately, when a man tells a woman 'how he feels' even in a short-term 'dating' relationship, this basically means that he has given up her power to her and she now has the true yet often hidden 'relational authority' of the relationship. She now 'owns him' and only because of who she is. Natural women don't have this problem. They instinctively know their natural role and stay in proper relational dynamic with men which lasts. Their love will only grow stronger provided he doesn't 'overdo it' and really give the power to her. With an empowered woman who already has power, if a man says something like this, he looks weak and she has the authority and takes over. All of this prevents men from telling how they feel unless they're an 'EMO' wussbag who is sprouting out all of his pent up emotions for an 'independent and wonderful' woman. Unfortunately in the true relational 'power' dynamic, he has given his power up to the woman. I have to re-emphasize again that natural women do not have this problem. So while many dating guru's are immediately blaming the men as wussies for showing ANY kind of emotion, they're missing the dynamics which currently exist. Our female behavior prevents most men from showing any kind of emotion without losing his relational authority. She'll start losing interest immediately just alone for the fact that she is so developed and the relational power balance is extremely delicate (and many men HAVE become 'fragile'). Many men are fragile because of our media propagation of gay role models instead of masculine alpha models. This will only grow further in the direction it's going with more and more female 'empowerment'. Sure, women may want 'men to be men' but the reality is, though it started out as an equality movement, women have grown unnaturally equal..they've grown 'stronger' and more powerful. None of this helps real or lasting relationships. Men don't even have the freedom to tell a woman how he feels. Heck, even strong men like me who retain authority over a relationship have VERY little squeeze room to express ourselves without her losing immediate interest. Girls, this is all to your detriment for better and worse. I predict that you won't change. You can't because you don't have a supportive 'stimulus' of an environment which has it's priorities on natural attributes and happiness instead of socially-driven 'career' advancement. Once you develop, it's hard to behaviorally go back to your roots. The advantage men have is that they can be more balanced and can 'develop' because of their natural (yes I said it) role of head of the house and leader. So men don't want to be 'wussy'...they have emotions and I admit that it's gotten out of control but there's a deeper context here. Other guru's don't realize the full fragile balance of power in a relationship. Unfortunately for men to be successful with you as a woman who is reading, they will have to repress their emotions in order to avoid swinging the delicate balance of power over into your favor. And if they do show any sign, you'll lose interest in reality and it's over. Quite tragic in a way. One answer for millions of men is to find natural women; women with whom they actually CAN show emotion who will reciprocate the emotion and not lose attraction to him but actually grow stronger in healthy attraction to him. I've experienced this countless times and that's the natural way of things; it's the way it's meant to be and the natural alpha women are experiencing in reality what the prada's and prickteases only fantasize about because they are in touch with their natural character in their behavioral reality. That is the natural way of things and it's what Motivational Seminars - Do they Translate into Increased Sales? rue yet often hidden 'relational authority' of the relationship.An old real estate friend of mine once attended, at the request of his broker, a listing presentation. After the speaker had gone through all of his theatricals, humorous anecdotes and a generous helping of buzz words, he encourage members of the audience to sign up for a full day seminar with the emphasis on listing.My friend said he was amazed at the enthusiasm it created. Dozens of people were pushing and shoving to get to the front with their check books at the ready. As all these people were licensed real estate agents he figured they obviously knew how to knock on a door and deliver a short feature benefit statement, so why were they so anxious to get rid of their cash.Fred, my friend, was a champion at listing. His secret was to go out in the morning and stay out into the evening knocking on doors. He didn’t see anything very compl She now 'owns him' and only because of who she is. Natural women don't have this problem. They instinctively know their natural role and stay in proper relational dynamic with men which lasts. Their love will only grow stronger provided he doesn't 'overdo it' and really give the power to her. With an empowered woman who already has power, if a man says something like this, he looks weak and she has the authority and takes over. All of this prevents men from telling how they feel unless they're an 'EMO' wussbag who is sprouting out all of his pent up emotions for an 'independent and wonderful' woman. Unfortunately in the true relational 'power' dynamic, he has given his power up to the woman. I have to re-emphasize again that natural women do not have this problem. So while many dating guru's are immediately blaming the men as wussies for showing ANY kind of emotion, they're missing the dynamics which currently exist. Our female behavior prevents most men from showing any kind of emotion without losing his relational authority. She'll start losing interest immediately just alone for the fact that she is so developed and the relational power balance is extremely delicate (and many men HAVE become 'fragile'). Many men are fragile because of our media propagation of gay role models instead of masculine alpha models. This will only grow further in the direction it's going with more and more female 'empowerment'. Sure, women may want 'men to be men' but the reality is, though it started out as an equality movement, women have grown unnaturally equal..they've grown 'stronger' and more powerful. None of this helps real or lasting relationships. Men don't even have the freedom to tell a woman how he feels. Heck, even strong men like me who retain authority over a relationship have VERY little squeeze room to express ourselves without her losing immediate interest. Girls, this is all to your detriment for better and worse. I predict that you won't change. You can't because you don't have a supportive 'stimulus' of an environment which has it's priorities on natural attributes and happiness instead of socially-driven 'career' advancement. Once you develop, it's hard to behaviorally go back to your roots. The advantage men have is that they can be more balanced and can 'develop' because of their natural (yes I said it) role of head of the house and leader. So men don't want to be 'wussy'...they have emotions and I admit that it's gotten out of control but there's a deeper context here. Other guru's don't realize the full fragile balance of power in a relationship. Unfortunately for men to be successful with you as a woman who is reading, they will have to repress their emotions in order to avoid swinging the delicate balance of power over into your favor. And if they do show any sign, you'll lose interest in reality and it's over. Quite tragic in a way. One answer for millions of men is to find natural women; women with whom they actually CAN show emotion who will reciprocate the emotion and not lose attraction to him but actually grow stronger in healthy attraction to him. I've experienced this countless times and that's the natural way of things; it's the way it's meant to be and the natural alpha women are experiencing in reality what the prada's and prickteases only fantasize about because they are in touch with their natural character in their behavioral reality. That is the natural way of things and it's what Things to Remember in Book Printing t she is so developed and the relational power balance is extremely delicate (and many men HAVE become 'fragile').The books have crowded the shelves of so many people these days. And that’s a good indication that even though there’s the internet at hand, still there are people who are interested in reading in print. If you’re a book lover, there are so many options of books for you to choose from. But if you’re into book publishing, you’ve got to face the fact that the competition in the market is getting tighter and tighter.Many publishers are looking for better ways on how to improve their book covers. Since it’s the cover that catches the eye of the readers first, it is important that your cover is well-designed. A compelling cover design makes a call to action to your target market. With a compelling book cover, surely a sale will develop.But you should take into account that it’s not only the cover of the book that you should keep an eye on. You Many men are fragile because of our media propagation of gay role models instead of masculine alpha models. This will only grow further in the direction it's going with more and more female 'empowerment'. Sure, women may want 'men to be men' but the reality is, though it started out as an equality movement, women have grown unnaturally equal..they've grown 'stronger' and more powerful. None of this helps real or lasting relationships. Men don't even have the freedom to tell a woman how he feels. Heck, even strong men like me who retain authority over a relationship have VERY little squeeze room to express ourselves without her losing immediate interest. Girls, this is all to your detriment for better and worse. I predict that you won't change. You can't because you don't have a supportive 'stimulus' of an environment which has it's priorities on natural attributes and happiness instead of socially-driven 'career' advancement. Once you develop, it's hard to behaviorally go back to your roots. The advantage men have is that they can be more balanced and can 'develop' because of their natural (yes I said it) role of head of the house and leader. So men don't want to be 'wussy'...they have emotions and I admit that it's gotten out of control but there's a deeper context here. Other guru's don't realize the full fragile balance of power in a relationship. Unfortunately for men to be successful with you as a woman who is reading, they will have to repress their emotions in order to avoid swinging the delicate balance of power over into your favor. And if they do show any sign, you'll lose interest in reality and it's over. Quite tragic in a way. One answer for millions of men is to find natural women; women with whom they actually CAN show emotion who will reciprocate the emotion and not lose attraction to him but actually grow stronger in healthy attraction to him. I've experienced this countless times and that's the natural way of things; it's the way it's meant to be and the natural alpha women are experiencing in reality what the prada's and prickteases only fantasize about because they are in touch with their natural character in their behavioral reality. That is the natural way of things and it's what Email: When You Don't Get a Response nced and can 'develop' because of their natural (yes I said it) role of head of the house and leader.The lack of an email response is an issue I have grappled with many times especially since I rely on email as a primary means of communication rather than the phone because of my hearing loss.You email a client, follow up, and whatnot. Hubby has been dealing with this for over a year, only instead of clients, he waits to hear from recruiters and managers about a job. When is it OK to follow up again? Is it even OK especially for those related to finding a job? There is no clear etiquette.When you don't hear back within a certain amount of time, what happens? I'm like Ilise and start jumping to conclusions. "Too expensive?" "Doesn't like me?" (this is more of a female response than a male response) "Did I not say it right?"We've come to expect email response within a short period of time, but I don't start convincing myself with rea So men don't want to be 'wussy'...they have emotions and I admit that it's gotten out of control but there's a deeper context here. Other guru's don't realize the full fragile balance of power in a relationship. Unfortunately for men to be successful with you as a woman who is reading, they will have to repress their emotions in order to avoid swinging the delicate balance of power over into your favor. And if they do show any sign, you'll lose interest in reality and it's over. Quite tragic in a way. One answer for millions of men is to find natural women; women with whom they actually CAN show emotion who will reciprocate the emotion and not lose attraction to him but actually grow stronger in healthy attraction to him. I've experienced this countless times and that's the natural way of things; it's the way it's meant to be and the natural alpha women are experiencing in reality what the prada's and prickteases only fantasize about because they are in touch with their natural character in their behavioral reality. That is the natural way of things and it's what millions of developed women are missing. They can't experience true romance because of their own 'power'. So men...if you DO want to show your emotion to a woman..keep in mind that if you show it to a Prada or Pricktease, you're almost guaranteed to lose your power and she'll have the unnatural favor in the relationship and then will lose interest in you. If you want to experience and transmute all of this cognitive 'emotion', meet a real natural alpha (outside the U.S.) and she'll actually appreciate and love you for it instead of losing interest. They won't always 'leave you' for it. Otherwise still I would say for men to tame down their 'emotional response' to our women because as a man you're ALWAYS the stimulus for a woman to respond to anyways.
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