more than a couple of engagements. That was until one day I decided to step outside of myself in an attempt to look at my dates as an observer. The results I came back with gave me some sure pointI used to rack my brains pondering away the hours in an attempt to analyze why it is that some guys can make a date with the mere wink of an eye, whereas others just struggle no matter how many books they read on successful dating, or new approaches they try. Let’s face it, some guys just find it impossible to make a lasting first impression. I have realized one important and reassuring fact though, and that is looks are really only skin deep.

I’ve seen some very ordinary looking chaps with absolute beauties on their arm. In fact, some guys are just plain ugly yet have stunning looking partners. Talk about beauty and the beast! I’m certainly no god’s gift to woman, but I’m not a bad looker either, but for some reason, I have always found it impossible to hold onto a date for more than a couple of engagements. That was until one day I decided to step outside of myself in an attempt to look at my dates as an observer. The results I came back with gave me some sure pointe

s they read on successful dating, or new approaches they try. Let’s face it, some guys just find it impossible to make a lasting first impression. I have realized one important and reassuring fact though, and that is looks are really only skin deep.

I’ve seen some very ordinary looking chaps with absolute beauties on their arm. In fact, some guys are just plain ugly yet have stunning looking partners. Talk about beauty and the beast! I’m certainly no god’s gift to woman, but I’m not a bad looker either, but for some reason, I have always found it impossible to hold onto a date for more than a couple of engagements. That was until one day I decided to step outside of myself in an attempt to look at my dates as an observer. The results I came back with gave me some sure point

though, and that is looks are really only skin deep.

I’ve seen some very ordinary looking chaps with absolute beauties on their arm. In fact, some guys are just plain ugly yet have stunning looking partners. Talk about beauty and the beast! I’m certainly no god’s gift to woman, but I’m not a bad looker either, but for some reason, I have always found it impossible to hold onto a date for more than a couple of engagements. That was until one day I decided to step outside of myself in an attempt to look at my dates as an observer. The results I came back with gave me some sure point

oking partners. Talk about beauty and the beast! I’m certainly no god’s gift to woman, but I’m not a bad looker either, but for some reason, I have always found it impossible to hold onto a date for more than a couple of engagements. That was until one day I decided to step outside of myself in an attempt to look at my dates as an observer. The results I came back with gave me some sure point more than a couple of engagements. That was until one day I decided to step outside of myself in an attempt to look at my dates as an observer. The results I came back with gave me some sure pointers of how NOT to date. Okay, here goes:

Due to nerves I was asking a lot of daft questions. Questions like; are you ok? You seem a little quiet. What’s wrong, don’t you fancy me? And other such insecure and stupid inquiries.

I also realized that I spent about 90% of the date talking about me, me, and more me. Oh how wonderful am I, let me tell you some more about me.

Through my research I realized that the best conversationalists are those that say little and listen a lot. Think about it for a second. How many times has someone listened to you rabbit on and on about something or other without even opening their mouth? You may leave the meeting thinking to yourself what a lovely person they were to chat with, yet they hardly spoke a word.

So, my simple ana