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4 Tips for Making Your New Year’s Business Resolution A Reality
You have daydreamed about it on more than one occasion. Or, maybe you have had a few sleepless nights thinking about it. And by now, your family and friends think you will never get that business of yours off the ground. But a New Year brings new opportunities to make the dream of owning your own business a reality. And it can be done in four simple steps -1. Develop a habit. Now do not kid yourself - properly starting a new business can be overwhelming and time consuming. But to keep from getting lost along the way, think of your business development in terms of "a single daily action". Make starting your new business a routine. For instance, today you might call your local regulatory agency to inquire about the business license requirements in your area. Tomorrow you may look into getting your stationary and business cards. In all likelihood, you may not be able to spend everyday working on your new business, but it is important to schedule time every week to work on making your dream a reality. If you can't work on starting your business on a daily basis, at least do it on a weekly basis.2. Get organized and stay organized. It may seem like a hassle now, but when it comes to say, gathering receipts and invoices for your accountant to prepare your tax return, you will be glad you did. When planning your new business, keep a notebook on hand to jot down ideas, categorize your research, to keep track of your start-up and operational costs, etc. Also, be sure to reserve space on your computer's hard drive for your electronic materials as well.A good place to begin is to make a "start-up checklist" where you can outline tasks like spendin

at will make you happier. And if you settle for hate- negative energy, you will find your self in gloom, darkness and miseries. If you are filled with love, the day will be longer.

The love I am talking here is not the kind you are never tired of saying, “I love you”. While you exactly mean, “ I like you.” If these are only words coming out of your brain in anticipation of some desire to be fulfilled and these don’t come from your heart, your consciousness, your personality, this word- love, remains a noun.

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An 8-Step Strategic Marketing Approach For New Business From Former Clients
How much of your marketing effort is dedicated to marketing and obtaining new clients or customers? Are you devoting your entire marketing effort to find new clients? Or are you using some strategic thinking and developing a strategy to get back in touch with former clients to gain new business from them? It has always intrigued me in my business coaching and business consulting practices that so many businesses give very little effort to or totally ignore past clients and customers that are no longer active.Not keeping in touch with former clients and customers is very short-term thinking and definitely is not strategic thinking. Actually, former clients and customers can be the best source of new business for you. Remember, it costs anywhere from 2 to 40 times as much to acquire a new client or customer than to keep an existing client or customer. With this in mind, Your Strategic Thinking Business Coach offers the following 8 strategic steps to gain new business from your former clients and customers by building an effective contact program.Strategic Step #1: Develop a list of all your former clients and customers, as well as centers of influence and other referral sources. This may mean sorting through old business cards, address lists in word processing files or old address books, etc, You should also put on that list the names and contact information of friends, colleagues, suppliers, professional associates, etc. The most important thing is to compile the list and then you can look at the list later to determine if any contacts should be deleted.Strategic Step #2: Determine the message you want to deliver to the contacts on your list. You do not need a specific reason to contact them. It is l

All human beings are product of love. The first process of your beginning- the conception is a bye product of love. Two people loved each other and then two cells completely mingled with each other, rather lost their individuality to become one. This oneness is only possible through love. Love is the essence of life. Nothing is possible in this world without love.

Once born, your first love is your mother. She has given you all she had in the form of life surviving energy- the milk. As a child, you felt comfortable clinging to the chest of your mother that was full of warmth of love. Love present within the womb, even, plays a vital role in development of child’s personality. That is why; doctor’s advice to carrying mothers is to remain happy, full of love.

You go to school and further up the journey of life. Your happiest moments are when you are in love. Love may not be confused with liking. Liking is outwardly while love is inwardly. Liking is superficial, like make up that can be washed away, but love is embedded deep. Love has no expectations, if it is true. A true lover wishes good for you. Try to see the moments, which filled you with a kind of ecstasy, kind of bliss, happiness, were not because of your material gains, but somewhere deep within it was your sense of loving. You loved those moments; you were lost in those moments. Your ego had disappeared. You were not wanting but were giving. But when you like, you want to get. You want to achieve. Your ego is inflated.

To love is to love god, to thank him for all he has given and this kind of love becomes worship. All your prayers may be useless, as those have been borrowed from others. Your love for the creator’s creations comes from you. It is yours and it becomes your own prayer, your own way of thanksgiving. That is the basic nature given to you by the God.

At the end of the journey of life, people carry you on their shoulders, may be with cloudy eyes and a wetness filled with love. Your parting might be painful for them. The love leaves some tears in their eyes. Thus, the whole life, if minutely seen, revolves around love.

It is now proved scientifically too, that you are born with certain genes of your parents. These decide about many of your characteristics, behavioral pattern and finer points of your personality. These are called genetic characters or genetic personality.

During the course of journey of your life, you meet, interact and know many people and acquire many new traits and characters that develop and determine your personality. You may copy certain attributes of the people you come into contact with. People around you shape your ideas, your way of life and affect many of your original attributes. This environment around you plays a very important role. It has been seen many a times that a child born of a good parentage gets spoiled if allowed to grow in bad company. Company you keep determines your acquired personality.

Both the genetic and acquired characteristics go hand in glove. Here too, love or hate determine your being. Now, try to look at hate; it is another side of the same coin. If you love a person or a thing today, and you hate the same other day, it is not love. You love your wife or husband, but at times, when the wavelength crosses, you hate, the same person. Love and hate walk together, like day and light. As the length of light decides the duration of a day, and its absence allows night to settle in. So is the case of your happiness and sorrows. Allow the light of real love; you will be filled with brightness. You will remain cheerful. You will be filled with an energy- positive energy that will make you happier. And if you settle for hate- negative energy, you will find your self in gloom, darkness and miseries. If you are filled with love, the day will be longer.

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Become the Writer You Always Dreamed of Being
So you want to be a writer, except you don’t know where to begin. Heck you can’t even think of something to write about let alone how you’re going to get paid for writing. Maybe you have gotten over those humps but can’t figure out why you’re not a successful, awarding winning writer yet. Well, here are several tips to get you through all of those problems and then some.1. Plan What You are Going to Write – This is very important whether you are just beginning to write or have been writing for years. Simply put you need to know what you’re talking about. Many times we as writers get bogged down in what we call ‘writer’s block’ but all that really means is that we can’t think of anything to say. If you take whatever idea you have and start writing down the points you’d like to make about that idea, then the words will flow naturally. Also it planning what you are going to say ahead of time saves on time when you actually sit down to write out that story or article you have in mind.2. Write Everyday – And yes I do mean EVERYDAY. If you are serious about writing then you have to treat it like you would a regular job. That means you need to get up go to your office (a.k.a. your computer) and get to writing. Rain, hail, sleet or snow you need to write. Regardless of what you have to do that day you need to set aside time to write. Which brings me to my next point…3. Have a Specific Time Set Aside for Writing and Adhere to that Time – This is important if you’re going to establish the discipline necessary to become a serious and successful writer. You have to find a time frame that works for you and stick to that time frame. No excuses. The main reasons why budding writers don’t succeed is because they

ing is outwardly while love is inwardly. Liking is superficial, like make up that can be washed away, but love is embedded deep. Love has no expectations, if it is true. A true lover wishes good for you. Try to see the moments, which filled you with a kind of ecstasy, kind of bliss, happiness, were not because of your material gains, but somewhere deep within it was your sense of loving. You loved those moments; you were lost in those moments. Your ego had disappeared. You were not wanting but were giving. But when you like, you want to get. You want to achieve. Your ego is inflated.

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The Wheel of Success
Good sports coaches work on The Wheel of Success. There are four arcs to The Wheel of Success:1. Hard Work makes teams more Confident. 2. Confidence enables them to Win. 3. Winning is Enjoyable. 4. Enjoyment makes Hard Work easier.And so the wheel goes round and round and success comes more and more often.The point is that Winning starts with Hard Work.In this day it is fair to say that most business people work long hours. In many cases the hours seem to be exhausting and perhaps somewhat over the top. But the fruits of their labors do not always lead to success.So, what is going wrong? Why does the Hard Work not lead to the desired results?The answer is that their work is not Well Directed.Have you ever watched a football team where all the players are working their socks off, running around like demons and getting nowhere? Such teams do not have a plan, they have no direction.Good managers excel at directing the efforts of their teams. But there is a paucity of good leaders in the business arena. Why is it that when more money spent on training than at any time in previous history a proportionate number of good leaders are not emerging?I think that there are two reasons. The first is the criteria that is often used for selecting leaders. In working with many large corporations I find that by far the most common practice is to promote the person who is currently doing the best job at their current level. This is a classic case of promoting the best salesman and hoping he’ll turn out to be a good sales manager.The problem is that the newly promoted individual is often given little or no mentoring in their new role and no specific training in e

to you by the God.

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What is Your Expertise?
When I suggest writing a book to someone, they usually gasp and say I can't write. I don't know what I would say. Writing takes too much time. In reality, almost everyone I talk to wants to write a book. They dream about it. What most people understand is that it takes years to put a book together. Yet you see prolific authors such as Nora Roberts, Sue Grafton, Stephen Covey, and Stephen King. These authors write one or more books a year. It is not the writing that takes the time; it is the preparation for what you want to say. There is a tremendous amount of research that happens before you are ready to sit down and enter the text. When I write books (I have over 120 to my credit), I spend time planning. I look to see what knowledge I already possess, where my expertise lies and even if there is a market for the topic I have in mind. When writing this book, I talked to numerous people on how they dealt with business relationships. During those discussions I also uncovered a number of budding artists that were going to write or have started to write a book on the very same subject. As this book is being published, their books are still at the same stage that they were in three months ago, while mine is finished. What is the difference? Making time and planning appropriately are the two big keys. Writing does take some skill but with a good editor, you can get your thoughts down on the computer screen (or paper - not a preferred method). If you are still not comfortable with doing this, purchase a hand held recording device. Talk about each topic you have chosen for your book and pass it on to someone to transcribe and edit.

ment around you plays a very important role. It has been seen many a times that a child born of a good parentage gets spoiled if allowed to grow in bad company. Company you keep determines your acquired personality.

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Chapter 13 Bankruptcy: How It Effects Your Home
There is no doubt that filing chapter 13 bankruptcy will effect your mortgage, but the question is what will it do? When you file, it will remain on your credit report for up to ten years. During that time, every time that you apply for any credit, from a home mortgage to a car loan to a simple credit card, the lender will see this on your credit report and will then need to decide if in fact they should give you credit. In many cases, the answer will be no. When it comes to purchasing a home, this large commitment may be that much harder to get.Options For IndividualsBut, there are options for many people who are in chapter 13 bankruptcy or have found themselves with the ability to pay for a mortgage but have this black mark on their credit history. Buying home when you are in this situation will be tricky. Here are some tips to help you through.· There are lenders willing to work with individuals who are capable of paying their mortgage on time. Although you have this black mark on your history, some lenders will still work with you if you have a good history of steady income. Unlike a credit card, people are often more aware that they need to pay their home payments before anything else because it only takes one behind payment to get into foreclosure. Lenders realize this and some will offer payments to individuals in this situation.· Do anything and everything you can to build your credit history. Yes, you have bankruptcy on it, but you still need to insure that you are a good risk. One way to do this is to make your payments on time. This is very important to lenders. If you have a car payment, make sure that you pay it on time every month. The same goes with any credit cards you may ha

at will make you happier. And if you settle for hate- negative energy, you will find your self in gloom, darkness and miseries. If you are filled with love, the day will be longer.

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Love is better expressed in the form of a verb. Loving is better than love, like singing is better than a song. Song is a pool of words, while singing becomes soul of the song. Similarly, loving becomes essence of love. It is an action and you are involved in it. You become a part of the process. Then it starts radiating from your personality, it starts reflecting through your eyes, your gestures, your body, your aura. Now it becomes a natural offshoot, a natural flow. It has a meaning that is loving. In verb form, you are involved, you are using your energy, and you love. It does not remain merely an expression; rather it becomes an action and only actions leave impressions. If you love, then it becomes your nature. Then it is you, yes, you become an action. Since you are a product of love and the meaning of your being here is to love, you justify your being. You become God or godly, you may say either way.

But for God’s sake, do not minimize your identity by discriminating. Discrimination is good in liking, not loving. Once it dawns that every one is good and lovable, you love everything, every creation. You love flowers, plants, river and the sea. Love as a whole and not in parts. If it is done in parts, it is simply not complete and will not have any meaning. It has to be like a river, ever flowing, and non-discriminately- taking all that comes in its strides. If a big stone comes, it takes a slight turn and flows. Smaller events start flowing with the river. It does not stop till it reaches its destination. You are also here to love all- the people, the animals, plants, flowers, the river, the sea- whole of the universe, in its wholeness. Love becomes a holistic approach of life.

Love is blind, is an old saying. Real love is really blind. It does not see. It does not see any negative part in lover because a lover is aware of own faults too. The love only sees positively. If you love with complete acceptance, it is love. And if your love is true, it cannot be discriminatory, love is synthesizing energy, it unites, binds, mixes like water and is always holistic. That is how you were born. Whenever you love and are ready to let go your identity, willing to drop your ego, you are epitome of love; rather you become love- you become a source of productive energy.

Discrimination is analyzing energy. It breaks into pieces. In India, scriptures mentioned that each living being is a synthesis of five basic elements; earth, air, water, fire and space. The body is made of these five components and after the death, body constituents go back to original components, merge in the universe, mingle with is sources.

Scientists tell us that roughly 70-80 percent of body mass is water. The air and space takes up another ten percent part. Rest is a mass composed of earthy materials. It defines that basic nature of man is liquid, flowing, loving, non- resisting, like a river. The major constituent should be the governing factor, the ruling factor.

Take a glass of water; pour the water into a vessel of different shape. Water will very easily take the shape of new vessel. It will not resist. It is because water has a flow, it is ready to mix. It knows that it has no identity of its own. So is the life. But once the water in the glass is frozen; it solidifies, turns into ice. Now if you put it into another vessel, it will retain it hard shape. It will not accept new vessels shape. Because there is no flow now, it has hardened. An ego has crept in and it has become a man now. It does not want to change.

I, your ego that you acquire with the education system and society has frozen you, today. You have become ice, hard, solid without any flow. You only float in a sea but you are not part of the sea. Solidification brings hardness, a shape you cling to. It restricts you from mingling. Water mixes up easily you do not mix up. You remain aloof, though may be you are living in a crowd, called society. You do not flow, lest you loose your identity. But one day you are going to lose

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Many women use dissociation as a chronic coping mechanism for the pain of bad relationships. The problem is, it keeps women in a fog and largely unaware of alot of red flags they could be missing. Dissociation is helpful in initial traumatic events but adults must grow past mere dissociation to have a healthy life and future healthy relationships.

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