re to discover what he likes. He may say that you dress just fine but we invite you to pay attention and stay open to noticing what really turns him on. It certainly doesn’t have to mean buying revealing lingerie—but it might. It can be something as simple as getting out of your sweats and changing to an attractive top, pants or skirt. No matter what your body shape or how you feel about your body, begin to look at it with love, as he most likely does. Begin treating it with love and respect bThere’s a myth that almost everyone buys into that says that passion dies after a few years or even months as two people commit to each other.

We, and many others, absolutely know that that isn’t true.

What is true is that after you have found the one that really lights your fire, you have to keep doing things to keep your fire burning. While this certainly isn’t a new idea, it is something that couples tend to forget as they have children and get involved in their careers.

Relationships are certainly the responsibility of both people to keep them alive but we think there are certain things that a woman can do to keep the passion switch in the “On” position instead of “Off” or on “Standby.”

So, if you are a woman, we’re just talking to you right now. Here are 3 ways that you can keep the fire alive between you and your partner…

1. Make time for your loved one and to make love.
Couples lose their passion for each other because they allow their connection to get lost. They might be great friends but they are too busy, too tired or too whatever to make time for love. Arrange your life in such a way that love-making is part of your day or week. Make it important enough to schedule time to be together—just the two of you. Decide together what time works best in your lives and then go for it!

2. Open to trying some new things in the bedroom.
The two of you might explore your fantasies together and act on the ones that feel like they would be fun for both of you. If you like play-acting, adopt the attitude of a character that appeals to you. Dress up like that character. If this doesn’t appeal to you, you might do something as simple as adding music, food (like fruit or chocolate), or massage oils to your love-making experience. Be open to trying some different ways to more deeply enjoy yourself.

3. Dress in such a way that ignites his passion.
This can take some investigating and an honest curiosity and desire to discover what he likes. He may say that you dress just fine but we invite you to pay attention and stay open to noticing what really turns him on. It certainly doesn’t have to mean buying revealing lingerie—but it might. It can be something as simple as getting out of your sweats and changing to an attractive top, pants or skirt. No matter what your body shape or how you feel about your body, begin to look at it with love, as he most likely does. Begin treating it with love and respect b

elationships are certainly the responsibility of both people to keep them alive but we think there are certain things that a woman can do to keep the passion switch in the “On” position instead of “Off” or on “Standby.”

So, if you are a woman, we’re just talking to you right now. Here are 3 ways that you can keep the fire alive between you and your partner…

1. Make time for your loved one and to make love.
Couples lose their passion for each other because they allow their connection to get lost. They might be great friends but they are too busy, too tired or too whatever to make time for love. Arrange your life in such a way that love-making is part of your day or week. Make it important enough to schedule time to be together—just the two of you. Decide together what time works best in your lives and then go for it!

2. Open to trying some new things in the bedroom.
The two of you might explore your fantasies together and act on the ones that feel like they would be fun for both of you. If you like play-acting, adopt the attitude of a character that appeals to you. Dress up like that character. If this doesn’t appeal to you, you might do something as simple as adding music, food (like fruit or chocolate), or massage oils to your love-making experience. Be open to trying some different ways to more deeply enjoy yourself.

3. Dress in such a way that ignites his passion.
This can take some investigating and an honest curiosity and desire to discover what he likes. He may say that you dress just fine but we invite you to pay attention and stay open to noticing what really turns him on. It certainly doesn’t have to mean buying revealing lingerie—but it might. It can be something as simple as getting out of your sweats and changing to an attractive top, pants or skirt. No matter what your body shape or how you feel about your body, begin to look at it with love, as he most likely does. Begin treating it with love and respect b

ection to get lost. They might be great friends but they are too busy, too tired or too whatever to make time for love. Arrange your life in such a way that love-making is part of your day or week. Make it important enough to schedule time to be together—just the two of you. Decide together what time works best in your lives and then go for it!

2. Open to trying some new things in the bedroom.
The two of you might explore your fantasies together and act on the ones that feel like they would be fun for both of you. If you like play-acting, adopt the attitude of a character that appeals to you. Dress up like that character. If this doesn’t appeal to you, you might do something as simple as adding music, food (like fruit or chocolate), or massage oils to your love-making experience. Be open to trying some different ways to more deeply enjoy yourself.

3. Dress in such a way that ignites his passion.
This can take some investigating and an honest curiosity and desire to discover what he likes. He may say that you dress just fine but we invite you to pay attention and stay open to noticing what really turns him on. It certainly doesn’t have to mean buying revealing lingerie—but it might. It can be something as simple as getting out of your sweats and changing to an attractive top, pants or skirt. No matter what your body shape or how you feel about your body, begin to look at it with love, as he most likely does. Begin treating it with love and respect b

ey would be fun for both of you. If you like play-acting, adopt the attitude of a character that appeals to you. Dress up like that character. If this doesn’t appeal to you, you might do something as simple as adding music, food (like fruit or chocolate), or massage oils to your love-making experience. Be open to trying some different ways to more deeply enjoy yourself.

3. Dress in such a way that ignites his passion.
This can take some investigating and an honest curiosity and desire to discover what he likes. He may say that you dress just fine but we invite you to pay attention and stay open to noticing what really turns him on. It certainly doesn’t have to mean buying revealing lingerie—but it might. It can be something as simple as getting out of your sweats and changing to an attractive top, pants or skirt. No matter what your body shape or how you feel about your body, begin to look at it with love, as he most likely does. Begin treating it with love and respect b

re to discover what he likes. He may say that you dress just fine but we invite you to pay attention and stay open to noticing what really turns him on. It certainly doesn’t have to mean buying revealing lingerie—but it might. It can be something as simple as getting out of your sweats and changing to an attractive top, pants or skirt. No matter what your body shape or how you feel about your body, begin to look at it with love, as he most likely does. Begin treating it with love and respect by wearing clothes that reveal the radiance that you are. Hiding in a big, comfy bathrobe is fun and inviting and certainly fine—but give equal attention to clothing that allows the lovely person that you are to show.

These are just 3 ways that a woman can spice up her love relationship. It certainly is possible to keep the fire lit between two people who love each other. It just takes a willingness to try some new things and a desire and knowing that you can have it all.