d the word insomnia to my GP. But I’ve had more sleep problems in the last year than my husbands’ had nights of marital bliss. Until that is I discovered flower teas!

‘Passion Flower’ I read, raising my eyebrows over the breakfast table, looking at a book of herbal remedies and gazing at it’s unusual upside dow

Why does no one ever mention snooze disorders when they talk about menopause? As if hot flushes and weight gain wasn’t enough of an insult. When I started hitting the button on the clock at 2, 3, and 4 am, when I reached fifty, my husband grumbled loud enough to be heard in the next village. He carped about being woken up by my tossing and turning, putting the light on to read or getting up and wandering around the house. I was banned to the narrow bed in the spare room. As this was a second marriage for both of us and we had been wed less than 3 years, I set about a cunning plan to get back to the comforts of the marital king-size bed.

First, I cut down on my stress levels at work by delegating more, and when that didn’t solve the problem, I took an over-the-counter herbal sleep remedy and began contemplating my navel every Thursday night with girls as slim as leeks at a yoga class. I then tried variously, melatonin, valerian, lavender pillows, and any other complementary remedy that was remotely likely to restore my sleep.

But the land of nod continued to exclude the likes of me from its borders, and I joined the one in three people who suffer from insomnia. As I’d rather impale myself on a garden fork than take medication, I’ve never mentioned the word insomnia to my GP. But I’ve had more sleep problems in the last year than my husbands’ had nights of marital bliss. Until that is I discovered flower teas!

‘Passion Flower’ I read, raising my eyebrows over the breakfast table, looking at a book of herbal remedies and gazing at it’s unusual upside down

en up by my tossing and turning, putting the light on to read or getting up and wandering around the house. I was banned to the narrow bed in the spare room. As this was a second marriage for both of us and we had been wed less than 3 years, I set about a cunning plan to get back to the comforts of the marital king-size bed.

First, I cut down on my stress levels at work by delegating more, and when that didn’t solve the problem, I took an over-the-counter herbal sleep remedy and began contemplating my navel every Thursday night with girls as slim as leeks at a yoga class. I then tried variously, melatonin, valerian, lavender pillows, and any other complementary remedy that was remotely likely to restore my sleep.

But the land of nod continued to exclude the likes of me from its borders, and I joined the one in three people who suffer from insomnia. As I’d rather impale myself on a garden fork than take medication, I’ve never mentioned the word insomnia to my GP. But I’ve had more sleep problems in the last year than my husbands’ had nights of marital bliss. Until that is I discovered flower teas!

‘Passion Flower’ I read, raising my eyebrows over the breakfast table, looking at a book of herbal remedies and gazing at it’s unusual upside dow

ze bed.

First, I cut down on my stress levels at work by delegating more, and when that didn’t solve the problem, I took an over-the-counter herbal sleep remedy and began contemplating my navel every Thursday night with girls as slim as leeks at a yoga class. I then tried variously, melatonin, valerian, lavender pillows, and any other complementary remedy that was remotely likely to restore my sleep.

But the land of nod continued to exclude the likes of me from its borders, and I joined the one in three people who suffer from insomnia. As I’d rather impale myself on a garden fork than take medication, I’ve never mentioned the word insomnia to my GP. But I’ve had more sleep problems in the last year than my husbands’ had nights of marital bliss. Until that is I discovered flower teas!

‘Passion Flower’ I read, raising my eyebrows over the breakfast table, looking at a book of herbal remedies and gazing at it’s unusual upside dow

pillows, and any other complementary remedy that was remotely likely to restore my sleep.

But the land of nod continued to exclude the likes of me from its borders, and I joined the one in three people who suffer from insomnia. As I’d rather impale myself on a garden fork than take medication, I’ve never mentioned the word insomnia to my GP. But I’ve had more sleep problems in the last year than my husbands’ had nights of marital bliss. Until that is I discovered flower teas!

‘Passion Flower’ I read, raising my eyebrows over the breakfast table, looking at a book of herbal remedies and gazing at it’s unusual upside dow

d the word insomnia to my GP. But I’ve had more sleep problems in the last year than my husbands’ had nights of marital bliss. Until that is I discovered flower teas!

‘Passion Flower’ I read, raising my eyebrows over the breakfast table, looking at a book of herbal remedies and gazing at it’s unusual upside down flower. But the words passion awoke something more expectant in my husband. Ignoring the gleam in his eye, I went on ‘cross-like stamens suspended above a cradle of pale stakes’ he rattled his paper trying to ignore me, ‘it used to remind early Christian pilgrims of the Crucifixion’ I went on. He yawned as I commented on its striking blue, purple, red or white flowers and the fact that it is grown all over Europe, as a garden climber. Even when I informed him that it was also called Granadilla, Maypop, Passion Vine or Passiflora, it didn’t raise more than a grimace. “It’s a cure for insomnia” I said and he finally looked up from his paper.

Now, before you insomniacs tear down your passion flower from the garden wall and put the kettle on, it’s worth knowing that of the 460 species of passion flower, it is only Passiflora Incanarta that has the mild sedative effect. The product you can buy as a herbal supplement in Europe comes in tablet form or loose to be made into teas, or can be sprinkled in the bath water. Although the herb promotes a natural form of relaxation and is non-addictive it would be wise if you are taking any medication or are pregnant to consult with a herbalist.

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