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Make Your Writing Pay
You want to be a successful writer. You want to make money at it, too. How many books have you read about “self-publishing”, “understanding the writer’s market” or “how to make your articles sell”? It isn’t so easy for unpublished authors to break into certain markets. It doesn’t matter how many books you read.There is one avenue, however, that is v

Presentations and Sales Automotive Detailers
Many auto detailers fall short in their sales presentations. I have often shopped the competition to see what their knowledge base was to gage their worthiness as a formidable competitor in the market place. What I have found is that many auto detailers lack the specific knowledge needed to help their business grow and to present themselves as experienced in th

Not trying to be pessimistic, but human being in general is an escapist in many situations. When a problem arises, his immediate reaction is not working towards a ‘Solution’, but a quick provocative thought hits him as to who is to be blamed for the actual problem. This is called ‘Escapism.’ How many times in our life did we try to blame someone for the mistakes we did? We are in fact proving this – To err is Human. To blame it on some one else is much more Human.

Why does man always try to escape from situations? It is because of his timid nature, laziness, lack of courage, worth, confidence and self satisfaction. None of the above is of any good to us. “The chains of the habit are too weak to be felt until they are too strong to be broken.” so said Dr.Samual Johnson. So we need to take care in order to let go off this habit of escapism. How?

When you are faced with a problem be it, small or big, firstly stop reacting. Though tough, it is practicable. Do not panic immediately because it worsens the situation. Now start looking into the problem as to what the problem exactly is, what caused the problem and not who caused the problem. The moment we try to ponder on ‘who’ rather than ‘what’, we start filling our hearts with hatred, grudge and all negative feelings. This will not solve the problem. Do not blame the person who is the root cause of the problematic situation. True, we think we need to teach him a lesson but there is a time and worth for doing that. As it is said by a great being, it is not best that we should all think alike; it is difference of opinion that makes horse races. We all differ. Just because you think that a person made a mist

Why Take A Multivitamin?
Live longer, better If there was a pill available that could help prevent cancer, heart disease, cataracts, Parkinson's Disease and other age-related illnesses and this same pill could also boost childhood learning, protect you from pollution, prevent birth defects, reduce anti-social behavior and even lead to reduced crime levels - wouldn't you w

e someone for the mistakes we did? We are in fact proving this – To err is Human. To blame it on some one else is much more Human.

Could Ray Kroc have founded McDonalds in the Era of Sarbaines Oxley?
Over regulation of our free markets is stifling our growth in America and killing the next superstar Entrepreneurs. Let’s discuss just how bad it really is. Let’s us discuss Ray Kroc, founder of McDonalds and the Father of Franchising. In this philosophical discussion let us look at history for a moment shall we? If Ray Kroc had to pay $45,000 to create disclo

hains of the habit are too weak to be felt until they are too strong to be broken.” so said Dr.Samual Johnson. So we need to take care in order to let go off this habit of escapism. How?

Six Sigma – The Historical Perspective
The quest for perfection is second only to human survival instincts. These are the two reasons that were solely responsible for civilizations to flourish. That we are wearing clothes today as a symbol of the quest for perfection and innovation should reinforce this statement.Was There A Conscious Effort To Develop Six Sigma Into A Competitor To Existing

t worsens the situation. Now start looking into the problem as to what the problem exactly is, what caused the problem and not who caused the problem. The moment we try to ponder on ‘who’ rather than ‘what’, we start filling our hearts with hatred, grudge and all negative feelings. This will not solve the problem. Do not blame the person who is the root cause of the problematic situation. True, we think we need to teach him a lesson but there is a time and worth for doing that. As it is said by a great being, it is not best that we should all think alike; it is difference of opinion that makes horse races. We all differ. Just because you think that a person made a mis

Project Management - Why I Love Gantt Charts
Do you have a Gantt chart for each one of your projects, on your wall? (By the way, a Gantt chart is just a chart with time along the horizontal and the tasks drawn on as long thin boxes). If you don't already use them, here's why I think they are worth it:1. Communication: everyone can see the project, where they fit in, and why if they go late they

n who is the root cause of the problematic situation. True, we think we need to teach him a lesson but there is a time and worth for doing that. As it is said by a great being, it is not best that we should all think alike; it is difference of opinion that makes horse races. We all differ. Just because you think that a person made a mistake, it doesn’t mean he deserves all the anger and blame on earth. It is the nature of every person to error; give him a chance. After all, no one in the world is perfect.

Next comes the solution for the problem. If you stop blaming others, then the solution comes in very easily. Let escapism not dare to obstruct your growth anymore. Escapism doesn’t let you learn lessons which are only meant to grow higher and higher leading to more perfection. Every time a problem arises, you escape by blaming some one who was the cause for it. So you are turning away from the present problem. You have escaped it once but if you do not learn how to solve the problem, you will have to learn escaping from your problems your whole life. So why not learn to solve the problems and stop blaming others in order to develop courage, self-confidence? Self-confidence is your only strength with which you need not bow down with guilt before anyone. Pride then dances on your shoulders while the Smile dances on your lips. There is no problem which we cannot solve.

“Problem knocks your life not to create another problem of tension but for you to teach the tact of solving any other future problem.”- Sharmila Sanka

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